Kia Ora,

Something unpleasant happened to you yesterday, the day before, or last week, you carry this unpleasantness with you into the new day, by going over and over it again and again...Is doing this really helping the situation? Aren't you just contaminating a fresh day with stale thoughts-past their used by date ?

Now what happened happened and there's no going back to fix it,[no time machine] but there is a way forward, and that is to appreciate the  new day... You have a fresh canvas to create something more positive...Don't waste the opportunity of a life time...and a fresh new day 'is' an opportunity of a life time...

If you take life too seriously -then life will be just that... too serious ...

So, do you tend to take life too seriously ? Or do you take each 'new' day as they come ?

Metta Zenda

I can say that I have taken life too seriously. I had let it poisoned my attitude, possible opportunities, and relationships. I've grown since then. I've gotten better, but not perfect. I'm no saint nor would I claim such, but I'm trying to live and let live.

acuna mattata

In the past, I would let past events consume me. Now, once I wake up it is a new day and I don't concern myself much with what happened the day before. I'm much happier now. 

Kia Ora,

Don't worry be happy 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=endscreen&v=9AQ3Fcb3sjk&NR=1



Metta Zenda

Only those things that require being serious about. Otherwise, nope. Sometimes it's necessary to find something funny even in the most un-funniest things.

It really depends. I like to think that all in all, I am pretty easy going. But sometimes I do dwell on things, which drives certain people insane, lol.

I think what it is is that, when I am feeling not very confident in my own abilities to handle life, I get down and dwell. When I feel capable of handling life, I stay up.

Quote from: Caleb. on January 28, 2013, 04:44:53 PM
It really depends. I like to think that all in all, I am pretty easy going. But sometimes I do dwell on things, which drives certain people insane, lol.

I think what it is is that, when I am feeling not very confident in my own abilities to handle life, I get down and dwell. When I feel capable of handling life, I stay up.

Kia Ora Caleb,

You are what you think...So keep thinking this...

Metta Zenda

Quote from: Tossu-sama on January 28, 2013, 04:39:57 PM
Only those things that require being serious about. Otherwise, nope. Sometimes it's necessary to find something funny even in the most un-funniest things.

Kia Ora Tossu,

Way to go...keep looking for the bright side of the situation 

Metta Zenda

Quote from: Zenda on January 28, 2013, 05:05:17 PM
Kia Ora Caleb,

You are what you think...So keep thinking this...

Metta Zenda

That's actually a really good point!

Quote from: peky on January 28, 2013, 04:07:25 PM
acuna mattata

Kia Ora Peky,

It's also my motto 



Metta Zenda

Quote from: Brooke777 on January 28, 2013, 04:12:33 PM
In the past, I would let past events consume me. Now, once I wake up it is a new day and I don't concern myself much with what happened the day before. I'm much happier now. 

Kia Ora Brooke,

The more you live in the positive ie, have developed the ability to just let things go, the more it becomes the norm..
A Teflon mind where things flow through and nothing sticks...

Metta Zenda

People that "know" me consider me very easy going. I don't bring my life's struggles out into the open so as far as they see, I have a perfect life. That obviously doesn't include these forums where I like to vent... a lot. Behind the scenes, I take things entirely too seriously, but I'm working on correcting that.

Quote from: Emily52736 on January 28, 2013, 05:49:36 PM
People that "know" me consider me very easy going. I don't bring my life's struggles out into the open so as far as they see, I have a perfect life. That obviously doesn't include these forums where I like to vent... a lot. Behind the scenes, I take things entirely too seriously, but I'm working on correcting that.

Kia Ora Emily,

Acknowledgement starts the engine that moves you forward...Denial floods it...

Metta Zenda

If something you do results in wonderful results....take all the credit but....

if something you do goes totally caca...then blame it on somebody else...

This^^^my dear lady is the ultimate secret to longevity...it beats up meditation hands down 

Quote from: peky on January 28, 2013, 08:03:30 PM
If something you do results in wonderful results....take all the credit but....

if something you do goes totally caca...then blame it on somebody else...

This^^^my dear lady is the ultimate secret to longevity...it beats up meditation hands down 

Kia Ora Peky,

Do you teach this art on a professional level ? I can see its potential, there's money to be made 

Metta Zenda

Kia Ora,



It truly is full of wonder...

Metta Zenda

I try not to take life seriously at all. My life is about enjoying it.

Quote from: Kelly the Trans-Rebel on January 29, 2013, 02:43:36 AM
I try not to take life seriously at all. My life is about enjoying it.

me too...but there is also the pleasure of doing my master's commands...and my mission which is fueled by the "fire on my belly" is a very serious matter indeed..

Quote from: Kelly the Trans-Rebel on January 29, 2013, 02:43:36 AM
I try not to take life seriously at all. My life is about enjoying it.

Kia Ora Kelly,

And so it should be...

Metta Zenda