Hi Crin,
A big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.
There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in start talking and ask any question you like. You're quite safe here and we are very accepting.
Great crossroads to be at. I think you already know which road to take. The road of transition is not easy, but by comparison to living a life of quiet desperation, mediocrity and morbidity is not worth the energy or effort.
Keep in touch and let us know how you feel about your future. There is a lot of experience here to draw from. And you could say we are bias

But bias for all the right reasons.
Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine