My dad randomly came over and talked about how I felt he wasn't concerned with my mother's violent reactions. He said it's a serious thing (believe me, I know) and that it's stressful for the both of them and that my- well, my ex-boyfriend may have pushed me into it. Yeah, about that...you're going to tell me that because this boy leans towards homosexuality, he caused something years before I ever met him? That's a big freaking influence.

He agreed that her behavior is inappropriate (you think?) and said she doesn't know any better. Then he went on to say he doesn't think I'm getting the right kind of help and would be happier if he heard it from someone skilled in these things that "this is what she needs and what's best for her".
Who is this "she" he was talking about?

Oh joy, string of swear words is coming out of the living room. I wonder who has done my mother a terrible injustice this time.