Me and my girlfriend are having difficulties. The hard packer I have sticks straight out and points somewhat downward from my body, and this positioning makes anything with her on top of me, sideways, or anything else generally requiring it to point upward impossible. Clearly we need something with a more natural curve (i.e. it's supposed to be more parallel to my body than this???), but we can't find anything like this ANYWHERE. Suggestions, anyone? Any harnesses that would help, even? Strategies?