That was a mighty fine rant there Jayne. Looks like you could possibly have a gay transphobe arguing with you there; they sound like they're very keen to distance themsevles from trans people because they think we delegitimise 'their' cause.
Meanwhile, here I am... gay, trans and a gamer. Ah well..

People with views like that delegitimise
me. They created a hostile environment in which it was more difficult for me to transition.