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does anyone agree dilation is the most painful part of transition???

Started by milktea, April 03, 2013, 09:57:38 AM

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Tristan

Quote from: calico on April 28, 2013, 12:15:19 PM
So far for me, 1 and 2 are not really painful, and I went to #3 last night, and that was painfull, I am at 1 month post out now, I supose each person is different, I would think maybe increasing the time of your dilation, but I would also email your dr.
It seems like everythime you go up a size it takes like 3-6 days depending on the person to get use to it. I know for me it took a out 3 days . Although the final suicide orange one took me 6 days to get use to and zero pain.
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NJade

Quote from: Tristan on April 28, 2013, 12:41:22 PM
It seems like everythime you go up a size it takes like 3-6 days depending on the person to get use to it. I know for me it took a out 3 days . Although the final suicide orange one took me 6 days to get use to and zero pain.

It took me a good deal longer to get used to Mr. Orange. For the first few weeks, he hurt me terribly.

I am excited to say a month from today, I shall bid Mr. Green a fond adieu.
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calico

All these colors I keep hearing about  :icon_blink: All I got was clear 1,2,3,4 of course my loving names for them are little ricky,slim jim,big rick ,and big al  :icon_weirdface:
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XchristineX

Can anyone link a site that shows dialators please!!!
I'm getting scared lol that it mighr be super massive. 

And where do you get them?
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NJade

Quote from: calico on April 28, 2013, 01:24:56 PM
All these colors I keep hearing about  :icon_blink: All I got was clear 1,2,3,4 of course my loving names for them are little ricky,slim jim,big rick ,and big al  :icon_weirdface:

Brassard's are color coded  ;) Mr. Orange is #4.

And Christine, while I cannot provide you with a site, I'm sure you can look them up somewhere online. Most surgeons provide them as part of the aftercare package.
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Anatta

Quote from: XchristineX on April 28, 2013, 01:38:03 PM
Can anyone link a site that shows dialators please!!!
I'm getting scared lol that it mighr be super massive. 

And where do you get them?

Kia Ora Christine,

I don't know about the others but my surgeon provided them...

This short youtube clip shows a doctor explaining how 'women' should use a dilator plus some images of dilators



Metta Zenda :)
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JennX

Quote from: Tristan on April 28, 2013, 12:41:22 PM
It seems like everythime you go up a size it takes like 3-6 days depending on the person to get use to it. I know for me it took a out 3 days . Although the final suicide orange one took me 6 days to get use to and zero pain.

Yeah... I've got Mr. Orange... But I doubt he'll ever get near me. That thing is huge. The diameter is a bit unrealistic and it's heavy as heck. I'll be passing.

Kudos to you for conquering it though.  :)
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-Dolly Parton
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Jenna Marie

Christine, Google "Soul Source GRS dilators" for the set where Mr. Orange is the biggest. :)

(Brassard provides the dilators as part of the overall package, already paid for, but that's his current supplier for them and shows the colors he uses.)
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JennX

Quote from: Jenna Marie on April 28, 2013, 05:20:07 PM
Christine, Google "Soul Source GRS dilators" for the set where Mr. Orange is the biggest. :)

(Brassard provides the dilators as part of the overall package, already paid for, but that's his current supplier for them and shows the colors he uses.)

Dr.McGinn and Dr.Bowers use the same set of dilators as Dr. Brassard.
Mr.Orange = Lexington Steele. Dam.  : :o
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XchristineX

What actually gives you the depth?

The surgery  or the dilator? And how ? By forcing it deeper for months?
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Tristan

Quote from: XchristineX on April 28, 2013, 07:59:19 PM
What actually gives you the depth?

The surgery  or the dilator? And how ? By forcing it deeper for months?
for me i went up up 6 ish after my um... pleasure time so yup i think force. oh and if you start having sex when your aloud to with guys who bottom out in you. then you can also get more depth
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Catherine Sarah

Hi Christine,

Essentially the surgery gives you the depth, with whatever donor material and / or grafts (if used)is available.

The dilators "train" the body into recognising this new cavity in the body is a neo vagina and not a wound that needs to be closed. It's a natural reaction for the body to want to close up any open wound it finds. And if you don't dilate as per instruction, your neo vagina will close up. It's just another joy that comes with the territory. :)

Huggs
Catherine




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JennX

Quote from: XchristineX on April 28, 2013, 07:59:19 PM
What actually gives you the depth?

The surgery  or the dilator? And how ? By forcing it deeper for months?

It's a combination of things... What you start with, what your surgeon does, and how well you stick to your dilation schedule. Also, don't eat a big dinner before sex.
;)
"If you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain."
-Dolly Parton
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calico

I think I'm going to get a set of tthose soul source dilators, while the ones provided are doing the job, I like the taper of the soulsource variation better, basically what got is 4 hard acrylic dilators there is no softness whatsoever to them.
"To be one's self, and unafraid whether right or wrong, is more admirable than the easy cowardice of surrender to conformity."― Irving Wallace  "Before you can be anything, you have to be yourself. That's the hardest thing to find." -  E.L. Konigsburg
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Anatta

Kia Ora,

::) Wow ! Wonders never cease "Dilators that can go around corners"  ;) ;D

I've just checked out the "Soul Source GRS dilators" http://www.soulsourceenterprises.com/html/products_grs.html

Metta Zenda :)
"The most essential method which includes all other methods is beholding the mind. The mind is the root from which all things grow. If you can understand the mind, everything else is included !"   :icon_yes:
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milktea

month five sounds so far away...i'm only approaching 3.5 mths and it felt like a century.

i thought mth 4 would be better than 3, but it is still the same painful ordeal...only good thing is i'm down from 3 to 2x/day. the bad thing is there is no guarantee when things will get better, only that it eventually will. seriously, i think anyone who survived dilation without losing depth have iron willpower enough to pull through the grand inquisition...

and anyone who wants to get srs should find out all they can about dilation beforehand
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JennX

Quote from: calico on April 28, 2013, 11:59:37 PM
I think I'm going to get a set of tthose soul source dilators, while the ones provided are doing the job, I like the taper of the soulsource variation better, basically what got is 4 hard acrylic dilators there is no softness whatsoever to them.

The soulsource dialators are also hard plastic and not soft at all. Don't get your hopes up.
"If you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain."
-Dolly Parton
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JennX

Quote from: Cherrie on April 29, 2013, 04:10:23 AM
I wonder how the orange one compares to Suporn's biggest dilator which they name Large and is 34mm. The orange one is 1 1/5 inch but and according to the conversion tool I used that should be 38mm. Can somebody confirm that? I was already thinking to start looking for a dilator that is thicker than Suporn's Large. I also wonder if the silicone feels more comfy than Suporn's glass dilators.. Most girls I spoke don't even use the L but because most guys I've been with including my current boyfriend has a penis that is similair or thicker to L it wouldn't be 'enough' for me to only use the M. I've also been with guys who were thicker than the L so I may want to buy that orange one.

Btw, what's with the g-spot corner in those dilators? The ones from Suporn are just straight. What's the idea behind the corner?

The orange soulsource dialator is 1.5 inches in in diameter... which is 38 millimeters in diameter. It's big.

If I ever find a guy that big... anal only. I paid to much for my va-jay-jay to take the risk.

"If you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain."
-Dolly Parton
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calico

Quote from: JennX on April 29, 2013, 10:14:01 AM
The orange soulsource dialator is 1.5 inches in in diameter... which is 38 millimeters in diameter. It's big.

If I ever find a guy that big... anal only. I paid to much for my va-jay-jay to take the risk.

no kidding, im already looking at number 4 and i'm like uhh....  Ya know at first I was like those dont look so bad...  then I started dilating, and suddenly they look a lot scarier
"To be one's self, and unafraid whether right or wrong, is more admirable than the easy cowardice of surrender to conformity."― Irving Wallace  "Before you can be anything, you have to be yourself. That's the hardest thing to find." -  E.L. Konigsburg
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