Ok so, eh, hi!^_^
I'm sorry to start a new thread, but I'm kinda' confused, and I really want a little help..
I was born a female, but I have never felt like one. But I also don't really feel like a male! And it's confusing the hell out of me! I like to think of myself as neither, but if I were to choose, I would lean a little bit to the male side, I think. So I think I identify as a genderqueer? I have always felt this way, like, not fitting into a gender. I told my 2 close friends, and they're taking it very good! I was so afraid to tell my mom, but one day I told her, and she told me it was fine. It was a couple of weeks ago. But I don't think she even listened, or cared about it.
For en example: Me and my mom was shopping, and I found this perfume I liked. I told my mom it smelled really good, but then she replied with a "OH GOD THAT'S A PERFUME FOR MEN WHAT ARE YOU THINKING YOU ARE A GIRL, OK? DO YOU REALLY WANT TO SMELL LIKE A MAN!?". I also said to her I don't want bras, but I really wan't a binder. She told me "Oh, but the boys will love your boobs when you decide to dress proper, and show them off! Why would you want to hide them!?".
And yeah, it actually hurt my feelings a little. I took a lot of courage to tell her that stuff, but she doesn't even care.
I really want a binder, but I'm worried about how it will look. :/ I'm not skinny, I'm a little to the chubby side. I have very feminine curves, so I always wear loose-fitting t-shirts. That's what I feel most comfortable in. :3
But can I get a binder, that will fit? And also look ok, without a lot of fat bulging to the sides? My annoying chest is a D-cup, and I really want to hide it! I hate my chest, and I just want those stupid fatty lumps to be gone! Now!
So, can you guys suggest some good binders? And advice to what I should do with, yeah, everything? Strapless binders would be preferred. :]
Hugs from me, eheh. xD
- forkliftaddict
Oh btw. I'm Danish, so sorry for broken English!