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The Official 'Do I pass?' topic (Ver 4.0 - in 3-D)

Started by Jamie D, April 13, 2013, 02:27:03 AM

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DreadLOX

Hey guys im over here cause I've had some uncertainty lately about how masculine i look. I feel as if i look really feminine. I think its just me being hard on myself but i wanted an opinion from you guys. I'm 10 months on T but i feel i should look much more masculine. Thanks!!



Here's one of me real scruffy

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Erik Ezrin

You're not extremely masculine, but definitely a pass for me. I wouldn't THINK about gendering you a female if I saw you just like that! ;)
But yeah, I know the problem. Your own eyes can be deceiving sometimes.

And nice name too, but I'm the one with REAL dreadlocks here ;P
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Simon

DreadLOX, You completely pass and I don't think you look femme at all. You do look young. I'd say around 19 or so. Could that be why you think you should look more masculine? Most young guys don't look that masculine, imo.
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DreadLOX

Quote from: Erik Ezrin on June 15, 2013, 02:07:16 AM

And nice name too, but I'm the one with REAL dreadlocks here ;P

I wanted to grow dreads so bad, but thanks to my genes my hair is thinning front center of my head! Would leave for some not so sexy dreads haha

Quote from: Simon on June 15, 2013, 07:44:18 AM
DreadLOX, You completely pass and I don't think you look femme at all. You do look young. I'd say around 19 or so. Could that be why you think you should look more masculine? Most young guys don't look that masculine, imo.

Im 22 so not too far off haha that probably is why. I take cream so transition is slower but it has been good to me. Ill take both of your words that I pass. I just feel my face has that feminine shape. Not all guys on both sides of my family have strong masculine features either. Thanks guys!!
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Zarathoustra

Dreadlox, you just look more happy! :)
Your passing is very good!
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Shantel

Quote from: Organous on June 13, 2013, 09:28:30 PM
Hi everybody :) Do I pass for an 18-year-old guy? I'm pre-T and all that jazz.


Yeah good enough, but a really cute one though!  :)
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DreadLOX

Quote from: Zarathoustra on June 15, 2013, 12:40:05 PM
Dreadlox, you just look more happy! :)
Your passing is very good!

Thanks!! i guess it's just me hyper analyzing myself. I have no problem in day to day life, i just feel i scream female
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Erik Ezrin

Just trust me (and the rest) you DON'T! ;)
Nor will smiling make you look more female (sometimes I think it does, and I take pics of myself with a grumpy face, lol!)

QuoteI wanted to grow dreads so bad, but thanks to my genes my hair is thinning front center of my head! Would leave for some not so sexy dreads haha
Ahh man, that sucks! I know some guys who have dreads with thinning hair, and it looks great (the key is to wear them like the mane of a lion, and not think about what others might think). But yeah, it depends. Maybe I'll cut them eventually too, if the thinning on T gets too much and makes it look bad (short hair/small mohawk has been 2nd on my list for a long time too).


Okay, I know I posted my pic before, but this one is a full body shot (slightly bend through my knees tho', and ignore the derpy pose and face XD) I like how straight my chest/torso looks here, but I'm not sure on my face. I just see TOO MUCH female in there *face-to-desk*
I should just take off these 'negative vision dysphoria glasses' *sigh*
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Liminal Stranger

I'm sorry...where'd you find female in there? You'll have to point it out to me, because I'm not seeing it. Same goes for you, DreadLOX. You both pass perfectly fine to me.




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Elijah3291

Erik, totally male, your face is maybe a bit soft looking but not female at all.
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Darrin Scott

I shaved my facial hair and shaped it. It was long and connected all the way around my face and chin. I'm worried I look like a girl again. What do you honestly think? Am I being paranoid?







I know I look stoned. It's just the flash.






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Adam (birkin)

Seriously Darrin, you have nothing to worry about. I don't see any feminine features on you whatsoever. And I think you did a great job trimming the beard, it looks badass.
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Terri

Darrin - you look like every guy who picked on me in high school - I think you are safe - xo - Terri
I pretended to be the person I wanted to be until finally I became that person.  Or he became me.  Cary Grant
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Jack_M

Darrin: I think that look suits you best but I never really questioned your pass-ability!
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Erik Ezrin

Great looking Darrin ;)
The way you trimmed your beard is very badass. Looks good on you too!
"I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not" -Kurt Cobain

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D0LL

Y'all look very manly to me! Erik, that full body shot of you makes you look VERY masculine! Your face doesn't even look femme in that pic. If I woulda just seen that pic at random, I woulda thought "Dude" without a second guess. :3 And Darrin, you've still got facial hair, no way you could look feminine with that! Haha! But seriously, your face shape is very male, I think you could still pass without any facial hair whatsoever.
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AdamMLP

Erik - You pass to me, the only thing that would make you look more masculine would to not have such baggy trousers on, they make your shoulders and top half took smaller, whereas most men have a V-shaped bodies with their shoulders as the broadest part.  But you still pass to me with your current style, so don't let me change that.

Darrin - Definitely male, as always.  You need to kick your dysphoria out the window because you're never going to look female again, hair or no hair!
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DreadLOX

Eric dude you look good man! Definatly a pass. Your torso does look really straight!

Darrin you always pass dude you look fine man I would not second guess you at all.
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Simon

Erik, you're just adorkable and honestly what I think would hinder you passing would be your clothing.

Darrin, as always you pass just fine. Now get over to the badass thread, lol.
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