Hi! You can call me Jan if you like. Im 28 and I live in california. Ive been lurking about for a few years and I still have many gender issues to work out. I currently live as a male and am married, my wife has no idea about my secret struggle. Im hoping to one day come out to the light, but at least i can explore myself in places like this. I hate the fact that I am dishonest with my spouse about this whole issue, but Ive consigned myself to the "long haul" and will wait, gather research about hormones, surgery, etc, and be plenty prepared for when the time comes to unleash myself upon the world (metaphorically speaking of course)

Hello Jan and welcome to the Susan's .

Your story sounds very similar to mine and you are the same age!

Hey there, Jan.  Welcome fellow Californian.

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Hi Jan,

Welcome to our little family. Over 12022 . That would be one heck of a family reunion.

Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another sister.


Janet  )O(

wow! thanks everyone! Its nice to know the love you have for total strangers, its very refreshing. This is a lovely place!

Quote from: Sarah84 on July 11, 2013, 01:34:25 AM
Hello Jan and welcome to the Susan's .

Your story sounds very similar to mine and you are the same age!

Its nice to know there are people who are going through the same issues as me right now, it truly is comforting