I was (at least the shortened version of it), but I'm not going to use it. I'm changing all 3. Dramatic/too much you ask? I say no. I have a brother, so he can keep the surname going (which is actually VERY rare; we might be the only family + 1 other family with the name in the US, and maybe only 3 other small families somewhere is Europe..). Even if I kept it, I don't want kids, so the non existent kids won't get it. Middle name, very masculine. I never liked my first name.
Now, like Barbie, I too have a Korean name that I go by (sometimes), but it too is masculine. So basically, changing to a completely female Korean name some time in the future without an English "nickname." BUT the Korean last name is my family's last name in Korea. Go figure. (adopted..if you were confused).