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Do I Look Female? (Ver 2.0)

Started by Jamie D, February 05, 2013, 03:20:59 AM

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JLT1

Janet,

You are absolutly right – masculine facial bone structure.  The contouring to bring out the cheek bones is probably a good idea.  I'll go online and figure out what that means and how to do it.  I tried some additional eye cream tonight and will keep trying to get there.  I just don't sleep enough or something.  My eyes are always so dark.  Thinking of trying some lighter cream just above the eyebrow ridge to remove some shadow.  Did the lip plumper, helped a little.

Ultimately,  only FFS will take care of everything and it will need to be extensive.

Thank you for your honesty and suggestions.

+1 for Janet.  Honest is a hard thing to be sometimes.  Good suggestions are often even harder.
To move forward is to leave behind that which has become dear. It is a call into the wild, into becoming someone currently unknown to us. For most, it is a call too frightening and too challenging to heed. For some, it is a call to be more than we were capable of being, both now and in the future.
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Joanna Dark

Quote from: Shantel on July 22, 2013, 08:25:34 AM
You sure do sweetie, super cute chickster!

Thanks Shan! You're too nice to me. Sometimes I think I look better without makeup. My goal is to be miss'd, she'd, and her'd while presenting male, which happens but only like 50 percent of the time. But this guy did call me baby today and I was dressed male.  Gawd, I sound like such a brat writing that when I know I'm prolly pretty privileged passing-wise.
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Shantel

Quote from: Joanna Dark on July 23, 2013, 01:11:47 AM
Thanks Shan! You're too nice to me. Sometimes I think I look better without makeup. My goal is to be miss'd, she'd, and her'd while presenting male, which happens but only like 50 percent of the time. But this guy did call me baby today and I was dressed male.  Gawd, I sound like such a brat writing that when I know I'm prolly pretty privileged passing-wise.

Yeaaaaaah! But we love you anyway kid!  ;D :D :laugh:
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lycheeblossom

I'm completely incapable of judging my own pass-for-cis-ability...



...though generally manage to avoid getting too caught up in passing neuroses these days.
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Shantel

Quote from: lycheeblossom on July 23, 2013, 08:46:50 PM
I'm completely incapable of judging my own pass-for-cis-ability...



...though generally manage to avoid getting too caught up in passing neuroses these days.

Very pretty gal for sure, love those eyebrows, if you decide to trim those a bit share some with me, I'm eyebrow challenged. My take is that you pass for cis probably better than a lot of cis women. Nose bridge might be a tad bit male, I dunno for sure. Like your looks though....sweet!
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JLT1

To move forward is to leave behind that which has become dear. It is a call into the wild, into becoming someone currently unknown to us. For most, it is a call too frightening and too challenging to heed. For some, it is a call to be more than we were capable of being, both now and in the future.
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SciNerdGirl

Quote from: lycheeblossom on July 23, 2013, 08:46:50 PM
I'm completely incapable of judging my own pass-for-cis-ability...



...though generally manage to avoid getting too caught up in passing neuroses these days.

You are very pretty.  I totally love the hair.  Super Cute!!

J.
If I want to look like a girl, I need to eat like one.

Happiness is getting your eyeliner perfect on the first try  :angel:
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Andaya

Quote from: lycheeblossom on July 23, 2013, 08:46:50 PM
I'm completely incapable of judging my own pass-for-cis-ability...



...though generally manage to avoid getting too caught up in passing neuroses these days.
If I passed you on the street or met you in person, I wouldn't be able to tell you were trans at all. Heck even after zooming in on your photo on my iPad, I still couldn't tell. Your next stop is totally the "you look fabulous" thread!
-Andaya
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lycheeblossom

Quote from: Andaya on July 24, 2013, 12:59:31 AM
If I passed you on the street or met you in person, I wouldn't be able to tell you were trans at all. Heck even after zooming in on your photo on my iPad, I still couldn't tell. Your next stop is totally the "you look fabulous" thread!

Wow! :icon_redface: Thanks for the kind words, ladies!
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stavraki

Quote from: Jay-Bird on February 05, 2013, 06:53:42 PM
I would not question you passing at all if you walked by me in the street.
You look great and I loves your hair :)

you look like an important woman in my life.  A young version of my aunt Alexandra - she's all woman.  And you also have a 'look' to me that reminds me of a female school counsellor.  Dunno why.

Short answer - u look awesome!
Courage is fear that hasn't said its prayers yet
You don't have to forgive others because they deserve it.  Forgive them because you deserve peace

Fear of others is reminding you that you are in danger of becoming what you hate
Fear of self ensures that you don't become what you hate
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Amelia Pond

#870
I took this yesterday during my first day full time (I think I passed). I've been on HRT for 3 months, electrolysis for 7 months, am still growing my hair out and am wearing very little makeup. I'm already working on my weight (lost 45 lbs this year so far and still losing :)). I could use some constructive criticism on what I could do better/differently. Thanks in advance!  ;D

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stacey fisher

HI I started e on the]11th of July  but been living as fem for 15 months still a long way to go before I pass as fem but know day will come
start hrt on july 11/7/2013 been living as fem for 15 months full time and changed name legal a year ago and med recs to fem started spironolactone 7/6/2014 just laying in bed after getting my surgery done on the 11/11/2015 feel so good
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abbyt89

I'm going full-time soon and I've been super self-conscious about my appearance, specifically my shoulders and feet. I just started buying some clothes in prep for going ft and was wondering how I looked in these:

http://imgur.com/a/lG0I7

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abbyt89

#873
Quote from: Amelia Pond on July 24, 2013, 01:24:52 PM
I took this yesterday during my first day full time (I think I passed). I've been on HRT for 3 months, electrolysis for 7 months, am still growing my hair out and am wearing very little makeup. I'm already working on my weight (lost 45 lbs this year so far and still losing :)). I could use some constructive criticism on what I could do better/differently. Thanks in advance!  ;D



Wow, only three months HRT? You pass really well in that picture.

Congrats on the weight loss! I'm down about 35lbs since coming out last year and it really feels great. Keep on keepin' on :)
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Miss Jill Thorn

:-* :-*
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lycheeblossom

#875
Quote from: Amelia Pond on July 24, 2013, 01:24:52 PM
I took this yesterday during my first day full time (I think I passed). I've been on HRT for 3 months, electrolysis for 7 months, am still growing my hair out and am wearing very little makeup. I'm already working on my weight (lost 45 lbs this year so far and still losing :)). I could use some constructive criticism on what I could do better/differently. Thanks in advance!  ;D



I have to agree with Abby; I see nothing but a woman in this photograph. Also, Amelia Pond is totally my favorite Dr. Who companion.

And Abby, you look fantastic as well. Your face is beautiful, and totally passes, and though your frame is what it is as a result of testosterone, it is not outside of the female range at all. You look like a woman.
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Sammy

Quote from: abbyt89 on July 24, 2013, 03:40:25 PM
I'm going full-time soon and I've been super self-conscious about my appearance, specifically my shoulders and feet. I just started buying some clothes in prep for going ft and was wondering how I looked in these:

http://imgur.com/a/lG0I7

What is the width of Your shoulders? I was quite surprised recently when I was looking up the average female shoulder width and it was in the 14"-17" range. Yours look pretty much being within that range - I'd say somewhere about 17", so thats average :).
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Shantel

#877
Quote from: Amelia Pond on July 24, 2013, 01:24:52 PM
I took this yesterday during my first day full time (I think I passed). I've been on HRT for 3 months, electrolysis for 7 months, am still growing my hair out and am wearing very little makeup. I'm already working on my weight (lost 45 lbs this year so far and still losing :)). I could use some constructive criticism on what I could do better/differently. Thanks in advance!  ;D



Amelia, you look completely cis female in that photo, very nice choice in tops too I might add. Congrats on the weight loss, stick with it Miss, you're looking good!
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abbyt89

Quote from: -Emily- on July 24, 2013, 04:22:55 PM
What is the width of Your shoulders? I was quite surprised recently when I was looking up the average female shoulder width and it was in the 14"-17" range. Yours look pretty much being within that range - I'd say somewhere about 17", so thats average :).

Mine are about 20-21" across and I am 5'8. I really hope that my shoulders shrink a little bit by the time I get down to my goal weight.
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Sammy

Ahem... Did You measure them Yourself and if yes, how exactly did You do that? Maybe ask someone to do this for You? Because 21" usually draw quite a lot of attention (20" is significantly broader than average male shoulder width) - and pardon me, but Yours do not draw THAT MUCH attention :P.
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