I'm new here so please to meet everybody. I'm mtf. I live in South Africa I have been living as myself as female for the past 24 years I fully integrate and pass easy . In my country it was pretty impossible to change gender without surgery and hence I never obtained my identity book (social security number ) as of recent It is possible to amment my gender but it takes up to to a year to be noted , My question to you is How do I bridge the topic with an Employer of me being Male on my Identity card versus me looking like I do and being called by my assumed name for the past 24 years. No one knows my secret except my immediate family .
I have been working off the grid for myself since I graduated college but Its not paying enough and especially if I still need to make surgery costs I need to find gainful employment that pays better. I'm grateful for any help and direction thank you Mash