I am officially out at trans to all my family this month - just my wife's side to go.
Everything went swimmingly well- not only was I accepted, everyone was happy I found whats been bugging me all these years. To add to the joy, my cousin in Melbourne was extremely excited by the news and immediately booked me to go shopping with her. She is an awesome mistress of funky little boutique and vintage shops. Awesome!
So thats dad, mum, sister, neice, nephew, aunt, uncle, two cousins and their partners.
I also came out as trans to our celebrant for dads funeral in order to avoid gendering me in her speech, and she was also delighted- turns out she was a former police woman and dealt with a lot of trans issues and training. Win!
Anyway, thought you may like to hear a story with a silver lining. I am very lucky.