Yeah I've seen it. I can't say it was really overt, but it was in the FTM section where I've seen comments (which I took to be maybe funny or something) why someone would *want* to be male. (Well actually don't *want* to be actually, just am.) People usually remind the person "well you are in the FTM section". But I'm sure there's a line there and it could be crossed.


--Jay

there are very many lines, for every person. easy to cross one even when staying inside the tos. that's when i think it's good to politely try to point out they might want to reconsider what they just wrote. things that cross outside the tos should always be reported the way i see it, but if it's in an active conversation it is possible to try and remind people that the tos exist.

Quote from: Sarah Louise on August 28, 2013, 10:33:34 AM
We make every effort to notify the member if we delete a post.  It is our policy to PM the user, but I'm not saying we don't forget once in a while.

okay, thank you. i was a little bit worried because i wrote some possibly harsh words in the post. someone might have found it offensive. but then i probably just forgot to check that i'd posted it properly. a small relief.

Quote from: Lo on August 28, 2013, 11:08:45 AM
The heck is THAT? You've got me curious now... I'm officially on a mission to find you your good floaty meat pie thing here.

I've found you exactly two Australian joints in LA: http://losangeles.menupages.com/restaurants/all-areas/all-neighborhoods/australian/

Quote from: aleon515 on August 28, 2013, 11:54:52 AM
Yeah I've seen it. I can't say it was really overt, but it was in the FTM section where I've seen comments (which I took to be maybe funny or something) why someone would *want* to be male. (Well actually don't *want* to be actually, just am.) People usually remind the person "well you are in the FTM section". But I'm sure there's a line there and it could be crossed.


--Jay

But seriously, why would you want to be male? I'm kidding.  Men are awesome, I just never was able to be one. 

Personally, I wish we could all get along better as I think all of us have more in common than not.  I'm a gender egalitarian, so I hope we can all remain equal and maintain some mutual respect.   Jokes are fine, but there are legit boundaries that I think some come close to crossing.  It's rare, but it happens from time to time.  I hope everyone will remember there are lots of guys here that need support as well.  To be honest, I wish there was some more men around sometimes.  We need to close the gender gap and get some more diversity.  Homogeneity is boring and overrated. 

Quote from: Lo on August 28, 2013, 12:31:59 PM
I've found you exactly two Australian joints in LA: http://losangeles.menupages.com/restaurants/all-areas/all-neighborhoods/australian/

This should get you started:

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,127277.msg1020635.html#msg1020635

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,118605.msg941234.html#msg941234

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,121066.msg942257.html#msg942257

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,96149.msg791379.html#msg791379

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,120094.msg939939.html#msg939939

Am I the only one that is getting a mental image of a constipated person who finally got things worked out when those meaty pie floaters are described?

Oh Goddess not pie floaters again!!

Reported post! Run away.

Actually I have this fantasy of force feeding Devlyn with pie floaters.

Ah sparked up the day!

Quote from: Cindy on August 28, 2013, 06:41:58 PM
Oh Goddess not pie floaters again!!

Reported post! Run away.

Actually I have this fantasy of force feeding Devlyn with pie floaters.

Ah sparked up the day!

You gotta catch me first!   <running away>

Just adding a vote of support for the mods: you're doing a fine job, and I have never felt insulted or threatened on this site.  You're collectively maintaining a friendly, compassionate, opinionated and open forum, and part of why I chose to be a donor is because of the clear work that you people are putting into things.  It takes effort to maintain order online, and I speak from experience as someone who has run a forum singlehandedly for the past decade.

Keep up the great work.  You're a source of great advice, and you're underappreciated.

Cindy uses her Crocodile Dundee skills to hurl a pie floater with deadly accuracy at a fleeing Devlyn.

Ha! You couldn't hit an elephant from that dist.................

Uh oh, what do you do when the mods start fighting....Susan!!!!

Quote from: Cindy on August 28, 2013, 02:51:47 AM


I, of course, am a Goddess, so my mistakes are Divine.

Cindy

Can I just say that I love you?

Quote from: Antonia J on August 28, 2013, 07:03:30 PM
Can I just say that I love you?

Actually, if you could tell Cindy not to move it would be nice. I have the Divine Goddess branding iron all heated up!

Quote from: Devlyn Marie on August 28, 2013, 07:07:45 PM
Actually, if you could tell Cindy not to move it would be nice. I have the Divine Goddess branding iron all heated up!

It's like Devlyn has a golf bag full of very specific branding irons, I'd offer to caddy for you but I'm sure there's a caddy brand

I'm the Keeper of the Irons - with the number Cindy has now, I need a small truck, a golf bag doesn't even carry the basics for her..

And I'm almost brand-free..

Quote from: Kelly the Trans-Rebel on August 28, 2013, 07:41:15 PM
I'm the Keeper of the Irons - with the number Cindy has now, I need a small truck, a golf bag doesn't even carry the basics for her..

And I'm almost brand-free..

Oh, um, er, hi, Kelly. I kinda borrowed one or two of the irons. I meant to leave a Post-it, um, was there one? I may have forgotten.

Quote from: Devlyn Marie on August 28, 2013, 07:46:55 PM
Oh, um, er, hi, Kelly. I kinda borrowed one or two of the irons. I meant to leave a Post-it, um, was there one? I may have forgotten.

This is why we need an extensive and organized bureaucracy. forms upon forms!

Who moderates the moderators again?

Quote from: Antonia J on August 28, 2013, 08:44:11 PM
Who moderates the moderators again?

Nobody moderates the moderators here, we just stand well back & patch up the survivors when the dust settles