Quote from: Cindi Jones on January 01, 2007, 11:52:50 PM
Pretend that you've gone through all this hell and you have finally had your surgery. You live completely in the role you've always wished for. You have a job and are getting by financially. You date once in a while or even have a rewarding relationship. Your circle of friends have grown and most of them are people who have never had to deal with transgender issues. You may or may not live in stealth.
What are you going to call yourself? A woman, man, transsexual... what? And why?
Cindi
Why pretend ? Pleeeease ? And quite what "hell" are you talking about

?
I'm well thru surgery .....
I'm a woman full stop, it would be so hard to imagine anything else now !
... and a reasonably successfull woman too (more cash in the bank at than I would sensibly know how to spend and all property paid for

?).
Stealth is so meaningless, some are ignorant or my past, many are not, but most respect me for who I am.
Those who have a problem, well good ridance to them

!
Laura x