Quote from: Miss_Bungle1991 on November 28, 2013, 07:00:47 PM
That's not cool.

I think you would make a cute lesbian, though.

Haha thanks a bunch! 

Quote from: Willow on November 28, 2013, 07:04:15 PM
Because we had a picture of us together with you dressed as a guy?

Nope, I told them I liked a transgender guy. They misunderstood. However, that picture probably wouldn't have helped.

Quote from: Shaina on November 28, 2013, 07:08:33 PM
Haha thanks a bunch! 

*Waves a watch in front of you*

You must join our wicked lesbian cabal...

Come on!!.......we have cookies.

Quote from: Miss_Bungle1991 on November 28, 2013, 07:25:28 PM
*Waves a watch in front of you*

You must join our wicked lesbian cabal...

Come on!!.......we have cookies.

It's "wicked"? Okay sign me up,  please!   

Quote from: Shaina on November 28, 2013, 07:36:18 PM
It's "wicked"? Okay sign me up,  please!   

Well...Kathy thought so....but she is slowly coming around.

Why is it that people who met me as a guy named Victor call me "she" even though they've known I'm a guy for the entire time they've known me?

All the communication with my mother I have, she's calling me "my boy"
I'm afraid she found out and is reacting negatively.

I am at my Brother-in-Law's for thanksgiving until Saturday. So they seem to take any chance they can to call me by my old name and male pronouns. I am so f-ing done! Its just one of the nails in the coffin in my failing marriage. I wish I was with Caleb. Speaking of my Honeybear, I miss him.





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Quote from: Willow on November 28, 2013, 08:28:42 PM
All the communication with my mother I have, she's calling me "my boy"
I'm afraid she found out and is reacting negatively.

Ugh, I went through that with my mom but I just didn't respond to it making it a non-issue and she eventually gave up on it

Quote from: Miss_Bungle1991 on November 28, 2013, 02:42:18 PM
I found out that there will be no Cornish Hens this year.

Fowl: extirpated in Cornwall.

Quote from: V M on November 28, 2013, 08:54:37 PMUgh, I went through that with my mom but I just didn't respond to it making it a non-issue and she eventually gave up on it

I'm just afraid of what went wrong. Will it be safe to go home for Christmas? There's too many variables.
Which is why I'm told to go to a dedicated therapist. Momday I must make a call to the only one who responded.

Quote from: Joules on November 28, 2013, 11:14:13 PMNot quite the same, but I'm going through similar with my brother.  I think it just takes some time for the peeps in our lives to adjust to the change they are confronted with.  The deeper the connection and longer the history, the more difficult the adjustment.  Hugs and Happy Turkeys Willow.

P.S. Curious typo girlfriend...   

I'm just looking for acceptance for who I am, and not who I appeared to be for 19 years.

Well, I was on the phone with her for a long while

Quote from: Keaira Raine on November 28, 2013, 08:37:28 PM
I am at my Brother-in-Law's for thanksgiving until Saturday. So they seem to take any chance they can to call me by my old name and male pronouns. I am so f-ing done!

That really sucks. I've been similar situations before and it is no fun at all. Hang in there.

Quote from: Shaina on November 28, 2013, 06:59:18 PM
My family thinks I'm a lesbian. And they're not being very nice about it either... 

You're not a lesbian? Damn...

I had to have a talk with my mom about pronouns... AGAIN. One of her brothers came by for Thanksgiving, he'd been in prison for years (weed, or something stupid like that, you know how it goes) so this is the first time we've met him. Thing is, I had friended him on Facebook and explained the whole trans thing, and he was really cool about it.

So my mom is introducing us:

"These are my sons, B, C, and E. And this is my I don't know what it is. I frown at her here This is [boyname] and he's decided he wants to be a woman and has renamed himself Crystal. (Okay, I don't know for sure that she spelled my name wrong while speaking it, but I wouldn't be surprised.)"

So I just left and cried for a while. Thanks, Mom. Thank you so very much.

I feel like a freak.
People piss me off.

I'm getting hairier than a wookie, specially from the waist down. I haven't shaved down there since the temperature dropped and I have 16-17º at home. Expending 30 minutes naked is far too painful, not to mention wetting my legs while and letting the water freeze instantly.

On the good side, my pubic hair growth rate has slowed down A LOT. If tomorrow I get up on time, I swear I will shave my legs while I swear everything I know.

I wear female jeans, skinny jeans, and I get ridiculed for it at work, it sorta sucks. The officer in charge in my shop ( in the military) is a really macho guy so anything I do that is remotely feminine he points out to the entire shop to put me down, it's schoolyard crap but he still does it all the time. It reminds me of high school I know people are entitled to there own opinion but damn, he's the type to compare the gay marriage debate to pedophillia, he's so low

Quote from: Kaitlin4475 on November 29, 2013, 12:17:11 PM
I wear female jeans, skinny jeans, and I get ridiculed for it at work, it sorta sucks. The officer in charge in my shop ( in the military) is a really macho guy so anything I do that is remotely feminine he points out to the entire shop to put me down, it's schoolyard crap but he still does it all the time. It reminds me of high school I know people are entitled to there own opinion but damn, he's the type to compare the gay marriage debate to pedophillia, he's so low

I hear you Kaitlin, but maybe you ought to cool your jets about feminizing until you're out of the military. They will make it difficult until it becomes a case against you and you have to get a psyche eval. They could find cause to put you out with a less than honorable discharge which would trump your chances for Veteran's benefits. Think it through!

Quote from: Kaitlin4475 on November 29, 2013, 12:17:11 PM
I wear female jeans, skinny jeans, and I get ridiculed for it at work, it sorta sucks. The officer in charge in my shop ( in the military) is a really macho guy so anything I do that is remotely feminine he points out to the entire shop to put me down, it's schoolyard crap but he still does it all the time. It reminds me of high school I know people are entitled to there own opinion but damn, he's the type to compare the gay marriage debate to pedophillia, he's so low

Sounds like that dude might have some major issues with his own sexuality!

They took the shaven head option off of GTA V: Online which sucks because I wanted my character to look like Mike V.

Quote from: Ms Grace on November 29, 2013, 07:18:21 PM
Sounds like that dude might have some major issues with his own sexuality!

That's usually the case, but he's got the full force of the military establishment to back him up and make Kaitlin miserable. It shouldn't be so, but it is what it is.