What a great poll.
I have just started my journey. My first step was to acknowledge it to myself and admit that I am a male in a female body and that I am ok. I told my gf of a year and a half, she took it rather well, but Im still stuck on telling my family. (I had to wait till my mother was drunk to tell her I was even gay)
But I think I would have to move to do my trans. but not to far. But only cause I know I would not be accepted in this community just by the looks I get now.
AJ