Quote from: Shantel on January 24, 2014, 12:54:05 PMWatch out fellas, Jessica is a man eater of a dominatrix!

If she eats men, then what does she do with women?

Quote from: Willow on January 24, 2014, 01:27:13 PM
If she eats men, then what does she do with women?

Quote from: caleb. on January 24, 2014, 01:24:28 PM
But I've been out as trans for over 4 years ago and it seems like my transition just wants to kick my teeth in.

That's what it does best baby! Dysphoria is a giant cookie monster and you are a double chocolate chips deluxe!

I wish I could say it's all about dysphoria, but it isn't. I mean, yeah, my dysphoria is pretty bad, to the point where sometimes I just don't leave the house (like now). I'm just tired of fighting people. I'm tired of explaining to the well-meaning liberals why it's horrible to out other people. I got pretty tired of fighting my family, but fortunately that seems to be done with - it was years of constant problems though. I'm tired of being treated like I'm some spectacle that's only worth any attention because "the transition" is so fascinating.

And if people keep outing me, it seems my life will just always be a series of dealing with others and I truly can't be arsed.

Quote from: caleb. on January 24, 2014, 01:38:37 PM
I wish I could say it's all about dysphoria, but it isn't. I mean, yeah, my dysphoria is pretty bad, to the point where sometimes I just don't leave the house (like now). I'm just tired of fighting people. I'm tired of explaining to the well-meaning liberals why it's horrible to out other people. I got pretty tired of fighting my family, but fortunately that seems to be done with - it was years of constant problems though. I'm tired of being treated like I'm some spectacle that's only worth any attention because "the transition" is so fascinating.

And if people keep outing me, it seems my life will just always be a series of dealing with others and I truly can't be arsed.

I can understand that, really. Sometimes it gets so boring handing out the same facts about us day after day. It wears on your nerves over time. I deal with mine by a 6 mile walk in the boonies every day. Which was really hard today with +7 temps. Thanks Uncle Sam for the arctic survival gear, snug as a bug and great workout with all it weighs.

Quote from: Jessica Merriman on January 24, 2014, 01:44:53 PM
I can understand that, really. Sometimes it gets so boring handing out the same facts about us day after day. It wears on your nerves over time. I deal with mine by a 6 mile walk in the boonies every day. Which was really hard today with +7 temps. Thanks Uncle Sam for the arctic survival gear, snug as a bug and great workout with all it weighs.

That sounds like a really great way to deal with stuff! My grandparents have a farm, and do I ever wish that I lived out there because I'd have so much space to walk! Our local park is rather crowded.

I'm sorta unhappy today because I feel pain coming from the suture site from a gastrointestinal surgery I had back in 2008. I also had an appendectomy in 2011 so my stomach is slightly disfigured. They sewed me up extra tight on my lower abdominal so I have a permanent overhang belly as well as what looks like 3 belly buttons and a huge scar. I'm both sad and scared because the doc over the phone is telling me that my symptoms indicate that I may have a hernia. Just what I need, another surgery to screw up my stomach. I'll find out tomorrow if this is true, if so then so much for my bikini dreams lol :/

Let's see.  Car repair bill is $8,000+ and the car is worth like $15,000

I'm hoping the bill comes with a tube of K-Y or Astroglide and a bottle of tequila...

Quote from: Jill F on January 24, 2014, 02:05:17 PM
Let's see.  Car repair bill is $8,000+ and the car is worth like $15,000

I'm hoping the bill comes with a tube of K-Y or Astroglide and a bottle of tequila...

Wow.

That really sucks.

How old is the car?

Quote from: Jessica Merriman on January 24, 2014, 01:23:11 PM
Quite all right soldier! Now get out there and take no prisoners on the job front! Love you brother!

Lol love you too, sis

Quote from: Jessica Merriman on January 24, 2014, 01:32:11 PM

Oh my!
*gets in line*

Quote from: Kaitlin4475 on January 24, 2014, 01:50:56 PM
I'm sorta unhappy today because I feel pain coming from the suture site from a gastrointestinal surgery I had back in 2008. I also had an appendectomy in 2011 so my stomach is slightly disfigured. They sewed me up extra tight on my lower abdominal so I have a permanent overhang belly as well as what looks like 3 belly buttons and a huge scar. I'm both sad and scared because the doc over the phone is telling me that my symptoms indicate that I may have a hernia. Just what I need, another surgery to screw up my stomach. I'll find out tomorrow if this is true, if so then so much for my bikini dreams lol :/

Good news is since your doctor was only on the phone with you, there's a very good chance everything is okay. Hope things turn out well, bet they do... 

Quote from: Laura Squirrel on January 24, 2014, 02:11:52 PM
Wow.

That really sucks.

How old is the car?

2007, and I just got the pink slip in November.  I'm just hoping I can squeeze 2 more years out of that lemon now.  I'd make a margarita joke now, but I usually just put limes in those.

Checking rooms for rent has made me give up on the idea and decide to extend the period I will be on this flat.

Checking apartments for sale is making me puke. With what we can afford anything moderately habitable sucks, and anything decent in space and distribution requires major repairs

My friends couldn't go to the game.
And now I don't want to.
So much for spending $115 on season tickets; I've been to maybe 2/3 of the games so far (probably 8/12) and don't really want to go to any of the rest.

Quote from: Liam Erik on January 24, 2014, 05:27:54 PM
I don't have friends becaaaause...

Of course you don't have friends here....You have family!! We will always listen to you, see!

The Poms winning a game..................... 

Wish i could have a baby...

a work incident.  There is a lot of walking involved. I went to help out in another area and was asked about 2 other guys. I said I saw them walking around all night. One of them guys yelled at me for talking behind his back by saying that. I keep thinking, would he rather I said I didn't see them so they must have been sleeping all night?

Don't know why but I always feel bummed out the day after a three hour electrolysis session 

I should be happy that the beard is vanishing bit by bit (and I am) but I rarely feel that way the next day. I'll be over it by tomorrow though, that's the usual pattern...