Since starting HRT, I've found myself more and more attracted to women in a more emotional way than before instead of just physical.

Before I use to consider myself Bi or pansexual... But the further I delve into my HRT process... The more I become inclined to women in every way... I've seen people talk about how their sexuality changes slightly or sometimes not at all, but whereas I was expecting that my minimal interest in men would increase with hormones, it's actually decreased dramatically and I honestly feel like I identify as full-on lesbian lol

Just an interesting observation; thought Id share hehehe

I have two MTF friends who were bisexual before HRT and confirmed lesbians after.  It happens.

I was kinda Bi before but it was really hard to get guys to be with me cause im too femme acting and I dont mean in a gay boy way. And I'm pretty andro looking so it made it really hard so maybe i was never really into women and it was just cause lesbains would date me. I dated a couple women and each of them were either andro women or full on butchy. So it's hard to say if I like men more because of HRT or because its super easy to get a man now. This guy hit one me today but I'm still in love with my ex and im a total idiot so i wouldnt date just because.

But that is interesting. I always heard it went the other way but I just think it doesnt change at all and you just become more comfy and stuff with yourself and so it allows you to fully explore your sexual options. Who knows?

Quote from: Joanna Dark on March 10, 2014, 08:31:36 PM
I was kinda Bi before but it was really hard to get guys to be with me cause im too femme acting and I dont mean in a gay boy way. And I'm pretty andro looking so it made it really hard so maybe i was never really into women and it was just cause lesbains would date me. I dated a couple women and each of them were either andro women or full on butchy. So it's hard to say if I like men more because of HRT or because its super easy to get a man now. This guy hit one me today but I'm still in love with my ex and im a total idiot so i wouldnt date just because.

But that is interesting. I always heard it went the other way but I just think it doesnt change at all and you just become more comfy and stuff with yourself and so it allows you to fully explore your sexual options. Who knows?

I was always bi, but since starting HRT I'm still bi it's just the inhibition is further receding for men.

I went bi after HRT.

Then I veered back to women... but it is SO different now.

Only four months in, so things will probably still evolve... and the right guy would... do not tell my wife!

I've always wanted to date men...it's just I was to andro on the boy side to date a straight man and gay men literally laughed at me most of the time. But now, some men are really into me. It's strange. But I prolly won't ever date a woman again, though I do like this one woman, but she's pretty andro and dresses very butch. I think she was an FTM for a bit but changed back. I'd totally date an FTM. I'm pretty sure, no I'm positive, my ex-fiance is an FTM. She just receded deep in denial. I mean she told me she wanted to be a man. Ans she dated me. She told people I was her girlfriend and all her friends referred to me as she and us as dykes and they would even change in front of me. So that was awesome. But right now, as stupid as it is, because my mom today said I need to forget him and move on, all I want is for my ex to stop needing "his space" and wanting  "to take a break," as he calls it. But I'm a little better than I have been recently. Gawd I'm so in love with him i'm such a sap. But I'm starting to think the break should be forever. I'm doing much better without him but I still want him oh so bad. I go to all these self-help women's dating sites reading about men annd breaks so I can better understand how men think but all I've realized is that I am in the same boat as so many other women. Woe is us lol I seriously do not understand men in any way. But I've always had a lot of male friends. But they always make jokes about ->-bleeped-<-ing me so there is that. I have a big butt that's where the jokes come from...well and the boobs. I wonder if that didn't happen and I was built different if I would be trans. I really do.

  wonder wats gonna happened with me. That would be such a sick twist of fate if I turn out to be lesbian lol

My sexual orientation hasnt changed ,
but as you , I feel more emotionally connected with other girls than guys...

And since emotions are kind of important now its only kinda natural if I preffer girls more.

I honestly have no idea what will happen with my sexuality since it has been a rather confusing, fluctuating thing over the years, haha.

I'm mainly into girls now, but occasionally I will find guys attractive. It's only somewhat femme guys, though. Just like, skinny, light skinned, lanky, etc. If any of you have seen the movie Spun think of the actor whose character got shot in the privates. I've never been with a male though.

I don't know what's going to happen though. I've been on HRT 2 weeks at this point so I'd say it's probably too early for me to know how or if my sexuality will shift.

I was totally gay my husband and I were married and I was still male on the outside, after HRT and modifying surgeries, I am more Bi, we have a live in maid, she knew me before and now after, we have become regular GF's and we have a sexual relationship with her now the 3 of us, funny thing she was never into women but she digs us both.