I hear you! That has been a concern. Oh, she assures me that will not happen. That she wants us to just live here together. Not me in this hell. Like I can believe that to after being married promising to love and take care of each other just a few months ago. You what really sucks.. I love the Boston Red Sox and FenwayM we got married at Fenway. She has ruined that for me. At least for now.  Anyway, I am keeping eye on that and finances too. I just hope she does not try anything whilw I am at work. That would be the lowest.

Pat

Good idea, put a plan in place just in case she starts to get 'creative' and pulls a fast one on you. Hopefully she won't go down that route because that would be taking sneakiness to a new level.

Yes it would. At this point nothing would surprise me anymore. Could not have thought this would ever happen. Tough when you really love and care about someone. She. Sure has shaken my trust in people. Hide all this very well up until now. Would have been awful nice to have shared all of this years ago. Thanks buddy for the reponses.

Pat

That sucks, sorry you have to go through all this pain and games.  It does puzzle me why she made all this plan to marry you and then push you away after. Sounds like maybe she scared of being alone?

I hope she not playing games with you, you need to have a life of your own and move on, it hard to judge what going on but I hope she not pulling anymore strings with you. I hope what ever the problem is that you two can sort it out. She should not keep putting you on hold.