A step up from "You know you pass when"... Here's an example:

You know your transition went well when:

Your formerly homophobic brother non chalantly says "Alright chick" when he hugs you good bye.

You actually want to wake up tomorrow morning.  OK, that was totally dark but true.

Kia Ora,

You know transition went well when... you no longer think about the "what ifs" when walking out the door...

Metta Anatta

Your former chemistry teacher asks what your maiden name was