In a slighty buzzed stooper, I've managed to come out to my mother in a text.  Now we wait!

Quote from: Alyssa Rae on May 05, 2014, 02:53:35 AM
In a slighty buzzed stooper, I've managed to come out to my mother in a text.  Now we wait!

I sure hope you caught Auto Correct mistakes in your text. Otherwise it might read I have decided to become a Toyota or something! Good luck sweetie! I hope it goes well for you.

Quote from: Jessica Merriman on May 05, 2014, 02:59:06 AM
I sure hope you caught Auto Correct mistakes in your text. Otherwise it might read I have decided to become a Toyota or something! Good luck sweetie! I hope it goes well for you.

haha, thanks Jessica!  I'm pretty coherent right now, just really.....bubbly and don't really give a duck what anyone thinks about it.  I'm tired of waiting and telling her seems like a logical first step.  Thank god for "just right" amounts of alcohol.  Haven't drank in nearly a year, so perfect timing! 

Yet another reason why phones should be taken away from us when alcohol is involved
Good luck hope your mother takes the news well and is accepting, fingers crossed

I didn't drink before I told anyone, but I know a lot who did AFTER I told them! So glad you got it out there. Isn't it just a terrible burden to carry? I was soooo relieved after I told everyone and in most cases it went better than I ever imagined it would.

Quote from: immortal gypsy on May 05, 2014, 03:08:26 AM
Yet another reason why phones should be taken away from us when alcohol is involved
Good luck hope your mother takes the news well and is accepting, fingers crossed

i think she'll be fine
Had it been certain family members or friends......not so much

Quote from: Jessica Merriman on May 05, 2014, 03:09:03 AM
I didn't drink before I told anyone, but I know a lot who did AFTER I told them! So glad you got it out there. Isn't it just a terrible burden to carry? I was soooo relieved after I told everyone and in most cases it went better than I ever imagined it would.

I usually drink once or twice a year.  I can count on both hands the amount of times I have drank in my life.  Felt like telling someone, so I decided to "cheat"  lol
Still can't believe I actually did it though. 

I hope it goes well for you..... keep us posted!

One of the reasons I drink with anyone is, because I spill!

Quote from: MbutF on May 05, 2014, 03:18:24 AM
I hope it goes well for you..... keep us posted!

One of the reasons I drink with anyone is, because I spill!

i did it with the sole intention of "spilling"

Well congratulations on telling someone keep us posted.  If you find it doesn't go as expected we are all here as a collective shoulder to cry and lean on as needed

I hope she calls or texts soon.  If not and this is worn off, I'll probably get too nervous and sound like porky pig. 

Well, that went surprisingly well.  Completely supportive. 

 

You go girl!!!

She's on my case pretty hard now actually!  Telling me to quit making excuses and get out there and do what needs to be done. 

oh wow. sounds like my mom though she still doesnt believe me 

Quote from: Alyssa Rae on May 05, 2014, 08:36:29 AM
She's on my case pretty hard now actually!  Telling me to quit making excuses and get out there and do what needs to be done.

Better hurry or you will miss the HRT am express! WOW! Total support? AWESOME!!!

Quote from: Jessica Merriman on May 05, 2014, 08:40:14 AM
Better hurry or you will miss the HRT am express! WOW! Total support? AWESOME!!!

yep, she's giving me a pep talk outta this world.

Quote from: Alyssa Rae on May 05, 2014, 08:41:51 AM
yep, she's giving me a pep talk outta this world.

Is she up for adopting any more kids!

I'm afraid she's going to drive here and stick her foot up my ass if I keep procrastinating.

Quote from: Alyssa Rae on May 05, 2014, 08:44:32 AM
I'm afraid she's going to drive here and stick her foot up my ass if I keep procrastinating.

some things she's saying really got home though.  Like how I'm worried about everyone hating me, when in reality I'm just hating myself.  She's really pushing for me to move home to St. Louis.