I actually have grown even more blunt and overall "b!tchy" since my official coming out as transmale. I was already quite blunt, so blunt that friends would often come to me for advice because I wouldn't just tell them what they wanted to hear; I told them how I thought it was and so on. Now, I've really lost the feminine motherly nurturing aspect of my personality. It's almost like what I've heard of people's mental thought changes after going on T. The "there there carebear" aspect of my personality is almost completely gone; things are as they are and that's that, and I'll tell you exactly what I think, or say nothing at all. Not that I'm not a nice person normally, it's just when things need to be said, I'm not afraid to say them. I can't imagine what I'll be like on T. I don't know if these changes are just growing older, and therefore less romantic (love-wise and adventure/imagination-wise, though the less romantic thing could be a part of presenting myself as male), or if it's part of my new presentation of myself. I'm certainly not doing it on purpose, but I'm not going to stop it right now. My best friend says it's one of the things he loves most about me.