I just googled some pics of Patricia Clarkson, and if I look half as feminine as her, since there's absolutely no thinking of her as anything other than a woman, I'm happy with the comparison. I'm never, ever clocked, but it's always nice to have positive reinforcement. Thank you, again, Melanie and Ally.
P.S. Yesterday I was walking out of a convenience store as a construction looking guy in his 50's was coming in. He held the door open for me and said, "Lookin' good, Sugar!" I genuinely blushed and shyly said, "Thank you very much." It was pretty nice. And funny.