Well I really can't say anything there as I really have maybe 2 IRL friends, neither of witch I ever get to see. So I am in the same boat. And none of the people IRL know of my gender issues excepting my mom and my grandmother. The latter is very nice and helpful and supportive, my mom thinks it's due to my hormonal problems and I need more testosterone. Anyway, I don't see a problem there really, but I don't know much about the sexualities so I may not be the best judge. (I'm Asexual, so I kinda ignore the sex topic whenever I can.) So I say go for it, just be careful. ^~^