Quote from: Jessica Merriman on May 19, 2014, 01:49:46 PM
Don't forget the rest if the letters (i-c-a) and my last name also!

Hey, leave my men alone. Well (i-c-a) me too. I'll share though, you can have all the ugly ones.

I have this same problem myself, and have been reading this thread hoping some of you girls would have a good way of preventing these idiots from hitting on me. However, because there doesn't seem to be one I'll just continue having fun with them. Men like this remind me of little lost puppy dogs following someone with a piece of food, lol! I especially have fun with the ones at the boat ramp (Ally gives sinister evil laugh) on weekends. And, since I now have boobs they have more than just my legs and my butt to oogle over, lol!!

Ally

tell them you don't like penis...or the you really don't have what I want line

or just get use to being female and the male sex looking at you lol even if your a lesbian

Being a MtF myself getting male attention is just part of the package, kind of like loosing male privilege. Just a part of being a woman.

Quote from: Jessica Merriman on May 19, 2014, 06:12:06 PM
Being a MtF myself getting male attention is just part of the package, kind of like loosing male privilege. Just a part of being a woman.

yeap ,exactly...

I think we all need to get used to it.

Oh, I'm sure I'll get used to it. The same way I've gotten used to a lot of annoying things in my life. Doesn't mean I'll ever like it, though.

If every guy reacted the same way to "no" then it would be easy, at least the same approach could be used by all women. Unfortunately they don't. Some take "no" as an invitation to try harder. Some take it as an insult. Some take the hint. How those responses manifest are as varied as the individual - "no as an invitation" could result in some serious stalking activity, "no as an insult" could result in assault or worse.

The trick is in trying to read the situation and the individual. How is he going to respond to "no", what will he do? Part of that is the way in which the "no" is delivered, if it is rude and aggressive it might escalate the situation or it might be the circuit breaker you need. Not forceful enough or too polite and you might not be taken seriously. So hard to know. So damn hard to know!

Just had a close brush with it myself, fortunately my request that he go away was taken up but even that was freaky. That I even had to point out to him that his behaviour was inappropriate was troublesome.

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*huggles Grace*

I read your thread about that. I'm so glad you're okay. Honestly, that guy's behaviour was creepy no matter how you look at it. Even if we took gender out of the equation, what kind of person thinks it's okay to hit on someone walking home in the dark? Some people...

Or maybe a tattoo like this

Could you route some of them here, please?

The standard way I deal with unwanted attention is to just pretend the source doesn't exist.

Quote from: Evelyn K on May 19, 2014, 08:54:03 PM
Or maybe a tattoo like this

Lol, but if people see that I'm pretty sure they'll feel compelled to ask something and use it as an excuse to talk to you more (and yeah, I know it's a joke. Get accused a lot of not knowing when someones joking when I just work with it, knowing it's a joke).
The more I look at it, the more I see crazy colour toothpaste 

Quote from: Evelyn K on May 18, 2014, 11:54:01 PM
lol.

Hey L00T where you kidding about the turquoise jewelry?

Maybe.

Lol, that's just an old joke I heard somewhere. Maybe it was Will & Grace.