Damnit...

Alainaluvsu · June 04, 2014, 04:06:54 PM

They're hard to find, for sure. I can't blame them either. You can't change what turns people on. It is what it is!

ZoeM · June 04, 2014, 04:11:34 PM

I found one, but he was rotten at the core. I'm just hoping yours is a better human being than mine turned out to be.

Just Shelly · June 04, 2014, 04:14:58 PM

You know I agree whole heartedly! This is exactly why I can't and don't hate him. I am wondering...is the man you are with a gay man or bisexual? I don't mean to sound offensive....but just wondering. I know the man I was with was 110% straight. I am fine with that since I don't plan on using my equipment until its an inny....and I really don't want to make use of something else for a substitute

!!

Jerri · June 04, 2014, 04:22:22 PM

wow! Aaiana,
what an awesome turn for you,
wishes the very best for you and your new found man
Jerri

Adam (birkin) · June 04, 2014, 07:03:03 PM

Quote from: Alainaluvsu on June 04, 2014, 02:02:54 AM
No. When I made a comment about him not acting like he knew, he literally said "The reason I didn't act like it was because you are a girl so I treat you like one". That is a direct quote off of the message in FB. He asked one question about my safety (being trans), and then we started to talk about video games and food for the next hour or two. No other mention of the gender thing.

I think I'm okay

Wow, that's amazing and I am so happy for you.

He sounds like a real winner, and like he "gets it."

Alainaluvsu · June 04, 2014, 07:13:36 PM

Quote from: Just Shelly on June 04, 2014, 04:14:58 PM
You know I agree whole heartedly! This is exactly why I can't and don't hate him. I am wondering...is the man you are with a gay man or bisexual? I don't mean to sound offensive....but just wondering. I know the man I was with was 110% straight. I am fine with that since I don't plan on using my equipment until its an inny....and I really don't want to make use of something else for a substitute !!

He's straight. We've had that discussion. He doesn't go for men, lol...

Miranda Catherine · June 04, 2014, 10:08:46 PM

Hi Alaina,
That's fantastic! Are you planning on getting SRS or was the six months quote more of a hope or wish? Good guys are hard to find for cis-women, and it's much, much harder for us. So if he's a keeper, keep him!

Alainaluvsu · June 04, 2014, 10:39:31 PM

The 6 month comment was a response to say that I can come up with an excuse to tell him why I cant have sex for 6 months.

Jamiep · June 04, 2014, 11:06:46 PM

Alaina so nice to see you back.

Sounds like your man knows what is going on and very liberal. Wonderful you have found a nice straight guy that likes & respects the lady that you are. All the best for beautiful things happening for both of you.

Jamie

Just Shelly · June 04, 2014, 11:14:18 PM

Quote from: Alainaluvsu on June 04, 2014, 04:06:54 PM
They're hard to find, for sure. I can't blame them either. You can't change what turns people on. It is what it is!

Quote from: Alainaluvsu on June 04, 2014, 07:13:36 PM
He's straight. We've had that discussion. He doesn't go for men, lol...

So I assume what you still have doesn't turn him off. That is really difficult to find in a straight man....as far as I have found.

Alainaluvsu · June 04, 2014, 11:51:36 PM

I dunno if he knows what I have. He may think I'm post op, but who knows. This town is pretty ... different.

Jess42 · June 05, 2014, 08:50:43 AM

Sounds like he likes you for you. Not every guy that likes pre op MTFs have bi or gay tendencies because it is the woman they like or fall for, not the genitals. It really sounds like he likes and respects you.

Bijou · June 05, 2014, 12:41:28 PM

Omg I'm squeeing for you! Very awesome

Rachel · June 05, 2014, 06:54:24 PM

I am so happy for you.

I hope things work out.

Pretty cool start to a relationship.

News:

Damnit...

Just Shelly

Just Shelly

Jess42