Thank you, everyone! This has been a long time in coming, and I am still very nervous, even after being on herbals since Oct.. The emotion train has been running at full speed since mid-Oct, so I'm well aware how I've been affected by it, um, and so is my family.

I have noticed the magical powers it has given me... I wasn't prepared for it! For instance:
1) I can make my wife fly, in to a rage with a single word,

2) I can become invisible, all I have to do is walk in the same room my wife is in, I can neither be seen or heard.

I did a couple searches and found finasteride helps keep DHT from doing its evil magic to hair. So it's all good.
Overall, I know it's only been a few days on drug hormones, but either it's a low dose (it is), or I already have had a good beginning with the herbals (I only have to look down to tell that) and a higher dose will only speed things up, not get things going. *sigh*
I'm still very much on the outs with my wife. She's demanding mediation this week but she can not find a job, so being on her own is not likely to happen. That part, will only happen with luck or a change in the economy.
Thanks again to all, all my bags are packed, I'm ready to go.. Hmmm, I think there's a song in there somewhere..