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I need advice to help me not lose my "relationship" with my "sister"...

Started by Shana-chan, June 09, 2014, 10:33:15 AM

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Shana-chan

*Update*

Recently I spoke to my Dad and he said the reason why my sister has stopped calling me and keeping in touch with me is because A) I was making demands and insisting on being called the name I wish to be called. (Fyi, that was the ONLY time I made demands with her, and only after waiting as long as I could for her to call me by my preferred name) The other reason being B) He says I brought up too many negative stuff with her, I basically dumped it all on her and the way he made it sound is that there was no/much positive stuff. While it's true I dumped a lot on her and brought up many negative subjects with her, we also had plenty of positive subjects brought up and, it's not like I didn't listen to her negative/positive subjects. It's also not like we didn't do stuff together which was good because we did.

Anyway, I asked him if that was what she herself told him and he said it was. So, if this is true then, well, yeah, it hurts and sucks but, I'm guessing you all would still say to leave her alone, send a simple card on holidays and let her come to me if she ever does. I shall try... Oh and thanks everyone!
"Denial will get people no where."
"Don't look to the here & now but rather, to the unknown future & hope on that vs. the here & now."
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