Evelyn, the lack of attachments makes things easier for you.  I had no intention of dating and getting married as I considered myself weird, damaged goods, yet it still happened.

It's an added complication that you don't want or need.

Jenny, sorry to hear about what happened.  *hug*
It must hurt seeing someone you love alive and yet not at the same time.  I'm so glad that things are looking on the upside for you.

To be honest, where I'm all open to a long-term relationship with someone I'll always enjoy spending time with, the idea of "settling down" doesn't at all interest me.

And I don't want kids.