Hey everyone. Just giving you guys an update on my current situation.

I made a thread last week. I think it's  called deeply depressed.
I know a lot was worried and I'm glad you guys had my back and you all gave me great suggestions that I used and most of it really worked.
So first off.

My mom didn't take me shopping Friday. (my birthday)
Instead we got into an argument.
I refused to go shopping for girl clothes and I told her if she buys them I'll burn them.
And my dad is pretty cheap, and he would have a heart attack if that were to happen.
So I tired the stubborn attempt. And it worked.
So my mom refused to do anything for my birthday. She basically cancelled it.
She locked all of my gifts from my bros or other family members in her room.
And I told her she is acting immature.
(My mom gets furious when I'm calm when arguing with her)

My dad finally caved in and gave me back my guy clothes. I thought he got rid of them but he said he just hid them in their room.
My dad also started calling me my male pronouns again.
And I can see myself actually forgiving my dad.
I approached my mom finally and asked her why don't she take me to get therapy.
(Since she still thinks this is a phase)
She refused and said we'll handle it like a family.
But her only ultimatum is either I start acting female and wait till I move or I'll no longer be her child, but she'll still love me.
That hurted a lot. But I wasn't going to give into her.
My mom can be very manipulating.
I just told her that's her problem then.
Today.
My mom and I had a small argumen about something stupid, so I know she just wanted a reason to yell at me.
So i didn't get upset about it.
Things are finally getting better again. Besides my mom.
But other then that. Things are good.

Hey man, great to hear that things are getting better. Good job staying firm with what you want and need. Having a trans kid can be really rough on a parent and it seems like she's processing everything in her own way. You said they were accepting at first and then all that stuff happened. Maybe your mom just needs to go through the stages of grief. I'm my parents only female born child and I know things have been rough for them even since I came out as liking girls. They mourn the life they were expecting for their daughter. Stay strong brother. One day it will all be worth it.

Keeping your ground and keeping your cool at the same time is not an easy thing and yet you managed it perfectly! I'm happy for you! I think since your dad was the one to give you back your clothes that he may be your key to therapy. Keep checking in with him and keep a positive vibe/open communication with him. Sometimes, as kids we learn which parent to go to for specific things. It's not ment to hurt our parents, but when one parent isn't listening, you can always turn to the other one. This worked very well for me when I was younger. For instance, my mom would be the one to buy me girly things but my dad would buy me and my brother matching clothes and we are 10 years apart. I wasn't out as a kid but I was very set on wearing gender neutral clothing and my dad would be the one to make sure that I would wear clothing when they were bought specifically for me. He too is cheap and doesn't want to waste his money. My mom soon started to shop for "gender neutral" items in the girls/womens department. I guess as long as they were from the girls section it was good enough for her. Where my dad would just go to walmart and stuff the cart with t-shirts and shorts from the boys section for me. I never went shopping with my parents, clothes were just bought for me up until I was 18. So, if you can keep having a positive relationship with your dad, your mom might just come around. Stay chill with her, if she keeps trying to start fights, keep cool just like you are now. She'll soon realize that she can't get into your head anymore.

I read your last thread and this one, and I think it's great that your father and your brothers are backing you up.  At least it sounds like he's trying, giving you back your clothes and using your pronouns; I think I would overlook his iffy start, too.  Maybe he was (is) being coerced.   Your mother, whew... ...well your mother sounds like a difficult little backbiter (I am being nice) and if she continues to pick fights with you for such insightful reasons as "but I wanted a girl!!" and "MY ROOOF!!" then you need only continue doing what you've been doing.  Maturity and reason beat hissing and spitting any day, and a healthy dose of stubbornness is necessary when your identity is being challenged by someone who just doesn't get it.  She can't imagine "asking for" being a trans man (as a cis woman), when what she really needs to understand is that what she's doing to you would be the same as trying to force your brothers into drag if your body only matched your brain and that you are not "asking for" anything, any more than they are asking for something when they put on their jeans and T-shirts or whatever they wear that is apparently "boys" clothes (...um, what?  ) and that forcing you into a dress is more like forcing your father into a dress or forcing her to chop all her hair off and wear khakis.
Her tantrums are also evidence that she regards the idea of grown adults getting into verbal slap fights as an inevitable (and acceptable) fact of life; being the most manipulative old curmudgeon in the land is supposed to "win" your arguments because the other guy is supposed to either get huffy right back and start yammering or lose his nerve and start backpedaling.  You're right; it is her problem.  It's her problem if she allows her mind to work that way.  She expects you to get furious and when you don't, she can't rely on feeling like the superior grownup as the pre-packaged groundwork for her buzzkill little argument.  She can't beat you if you aren't playing the same outdated game.
Also, you would be a much more generous man than I if you can ever forgive her for that "but you won't be my child" garbage.  That's the sort of thing a parent doesn't get to take back once they put it out there.  "Oh, by the way, my motherly love and devotion to my child is entirely based on such shallow conditions as ___ ___ ___."  And then she tries to appear all saintly and self-sacrificing by tacking "but I'll still love you" on the end like you stole from her purse or something.  No. When you drop that bomb, you drop that freakin' bomb, parents. 
And you do not have to take it.

Also, I agree with nikkie that your father may be your ticket to therapy.  Maybe he can be convinced that going to talk to someone is an important step.