Last night, or early this morning really. I had been stressing out about needing to for a while. We were in bed and had just made love and we were closer emotionally than I think we have ever been. My internal changes since accepting myself must be kicking in as I was able to be more tender and open than I can ever remember. I truly thought she MUST already know and I started be telling her that I have been seeing a therapist.  There were tears and caresses and hugs. My only regret is that I had to leave for work. I am currently here at work and have spoken to her ipn the phone several times. She has expressed a few reservations but has come to believe that WE can do this. I know that can change but I am teeing like the luckiest girl in the world right now.

Good for you rfhaas! Coming out to your SO is certainly one of the hardest things to do. I wish you and your wife the best and hope things work out for the two of you.

What a huge step you have taken! I am glad it has gone so well so far. There will probably be a lot of ups and downs but it sounds like you have a really good start.

Wish that my wife could be accepting like that.

It is such a massive thing for someone to deal with out of the blue, so it sounds like you have an amazing wife there   There is bound to be challenges ahead, but fingers crossed it will all work out xx