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What surprised you or others during your transition or outcoming?

Started by Hermosa_Tabby, June 28, 2014, 11:12:03 PM

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Tysilio

Quote from: FelixMy current surprise is nose hair. On testosterone I grow a lush forest of hair in my nose that would be great on my chin or sideburns, or on someone else's head if it were longer. I have zero use for this. I pluck or trim my nose hair several times a week and it's barely kept in check.

Felix, I don't have this problem myself (yet ), but I've read that plucking nose hair is a bad idea -- apparently it can lead to really nasty infections. Those wee little electric trimmers are supposed to be the best and easiest way to deal with this.
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Megumi

I was surprised when I first came out to my sister, I always thought she'd be in my corner from day one since she watched a lot of LGBT programing on tv. She hated my guts for months and vowed to make my transition so awful that I'd decide not to do it. She followed through with that decree but I never relented in my choice to transition or to still love her no matter what awful disgusting thing's she'd say to me.

When I came out at work I was VERY surprised by the positive reaction I got from most people. My boss is my biggest ally and has my back because he does not want to lose me as an employee since I do a very very good job. He gave me the best compliment ever when we told the plant manager & hr manager about my impending transition. He said that "we have to do the best we absolutely can to help her smoothly transition at work because if she decides to quit because of harassment then his department will go under" that almost brought me to tears to see how much he valued me as a person and using the right pronouns when I was still in guy mode.

When the announcement was finally made that I'd be transitioning at work NOBODY saw it coming even though at that point I was very close to having an A cup, my beard was pretty much gone, I had lost a lot of weight, gotten out of the bad funk I had been in for a long time, and suddenly it appeared if time was in reverse for me as I started looking younger and younger. The reaction of a few people when I told them to really look me up and down was priceless, you could see them suddenly realize that yeah I'm a girl lol.

My first day of being at work full time was another great experience. There actually were people who introduced themselves thinking this was the first time we had met.

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Felix

Quote from: Tysilio on August 07, 2014, 08:24:57 AM
Felix, I don't have this problem myself (yet ), but I've read that plucking nose hair is a bad idea -- apparently it can lead to really nasty infections. Those wee little electric trimmers are supposed to be the best and easiest way to deal with this.
I didn't even consider that pulling out nose hair could lead to anything. Or that I would ever be making nose hair decisions. There are little attachments for my hair clippers and on an electric razor my roommate gave me, so I'll check and see if any of them look appropriate for this. I'll use nail scissors if they don't.

I'm surprised at how much I still have to learn about being a man, or at least about being the man I am.
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Kristina77

Honestly I was surprised at how easy it's all been.  The only tough part has been work (which is now resolved) due to certain extremely religious employees in a small business setting. I'm out of there now with a settlement.

Family, friends, strangers- everything's been 100% perfectly great! I got the 'oh! well i kinda knew' thing a lot, even from distant family. No one was much surprised lol. It's funny because when I was living as male before I've gotten the gay male slurs my whole life and bullied because everyone assumed I was a femme gay boy. About 1-2 months after starting HRT everyone starting treating me a lot nicer  :o If i knew it was this easy i woulda done it years ago! I was so scared by alot of horror stories I heard but I've had a very easy transistion though I'm still not 100% done.


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Erica_Y

What surprised me the most so far is a couple of things. About 99.99999% of the people put there arms around me and supported me with almost no loss of friends, family or work folks. The second thing is that some people that have not seen me in a while had literally thought I was my sister even after some time conversing
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Dee Marshall

Quote from: Tysilio on August 07, 2014, 08:24:57 AM
Felix, I don't have this problem myself (yet ), but I've read that plucking nose hair is a bad idea -- apparently it can lead to really nasty infections. Those wee little electric trimmers are supposed to be the best and easiest way to deal with this.
Thumbs up on the trimmer, effective, cheap and good for eyebrows, too.

Not fair that endo gives you guys nose hair but doesn't get rid of it for us girls!
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