"...Greg (not his real name too) got upset with my posting pictures on facebook about some High-heeled shoes and tagging Amy in it "

NO S**T, Sherlock!  WHY would you do such a stupid, inconsiderate thing?  You have associated your friend with an ostensible man who has a fetish for heels.  Not very thoughtful.

 
Lets temper our replies a little please.

OK...FINE!   grrrrr....

However, Amy is stealth.  This is her choice.  Is not "tagging" her on Facebook with someone's, (ostensibly male's) interest in high heels a rather thoughtless, inconsiderate thing to do?

Quote from: Susan522 on August 09, 2014, 02:48:06 PM
However, Amy is stealth.  This is her choice.  Is not "tagging" her on Facebook with someone's, (ostensibly male's) interest in high heels a rather thoughtless, inconsiderate thing to do?

It did not show good judgment at all, but how will posters learn and change things if replies get them to shut down and sign off. We are here to help and advise, not punish or call others out for mistakes. Patience is the best way to correct and allow the person to see mistakes. Otherwise anger shuts us down and dialog is no longer meaningful which means the mistakes will just continue. That's all. 

Thank You.   Point taken.  Patience is not my strong point.

Oh trust me, I have had my issue's with it. Right fellow members and staff?  No one is perfect so don't sweat it.

All I thought was this was cool thing to share she was not the only friend I shared it with. I thought this is something she maybe interested in. Why would it be a problem I don't understand humans they are mystery to me

I will leave it to others why,  possibly "outing" a stealth TS is at the very least exceedingly thoughtless and inconsiderate.

I think you may misunderstand how is posting pics of shoes outing someone

Still waiting for the genetic test to come back > the T-level test has come back worse than it ever was (just higher than female level)

Quote from: Hopeformyfuture on August 12, 2014, 04:56:11 AM
Still waiting for the genetic test to come back

I hope yours gets back quicker than mine. My test took two weeks and yup, 47XXY. Explains a lot.

Quote from: Hopeformyfuture on August 09, 2014, 06:32:20 PM
I think you may misunderstand how is posting pics of shoes outing someone

I'm wondering the same thing.. How does this out Amy?

A man tagging a woman on a pic of shoes is not going to make people assume one or both are trans.

  I am just happy that I will get to the bottom of this now Hopefully once and for all

I always remind myself that people are the greatest mystery we have even to themselves. Once I realized this it may less sad with rest of humanity, and something that also brings a great deal of hope to the our world, when I felt that anyone can love anyone and it was okay