I definitely feel insecure about my height, I even made a post here to voice my concerns.

Since then I've been gathering data to put my feelings into perspective. As for dating and women, I'm still pre-T and lesbian-ish, so I've been able to ask some women about how they really feel about short guys. Here's my analysis so far:
- the older the woman is, the less they care
- the more confidence and sense of self they have, the less they care
- the more vain they are, the more they care
- the idea of what is attractive is different depending on country/city. There are some societies and cultures where traits other than height are considered way more important
Looking back this is fairly obvious.
But you know, I'm thinking that if a girl cares about how tall I am, even if somehow I become 6' tall, that same girl would care that I'm ftm and wouldn't date me anyway.
I'm curious about how short / tall cis-guys feel about other guys who are short / tall.