I'm 4'11"-5', and I ordered a packer. My second packer, to be exact. My first was some poorly made 5 inch packer. This time, I settled on another cheaper packer. I ordered a white Doc Johnson pack it Light packer from Amazon. It looked fine enough, despite the disturbing reviews about the pungent smell. ANYWAY, ON TO THE POINT (lol) : This packer is 4.5 inches. I'm having some trouble deciding if this is far too large or not. I found a website that shows many guys' flaccid vs. erect photos, and it seems as though 4.5 inches would be pretty large- especially for my small height. I was wondering if it would look too weird if I were to go around in boxer briefs with this size of package (around friends and such- they know I'm transgender, but still). I was also wondering if it would look TOO bulgy with basketball shorts and whatnot. I thought I was fine with my 5 inch one, but I just want to know if it would LOOK normal. Should I get a smaller one, perhaps?
Anyway, thank you for any help.

Have you received the packer yet? I have the Pack It Lite and I think it is a good size. The length of the shaft might be a bit long for a flaccid penis, but the circumference is normal and the scrotum is also small. It doesn't look huge in underwears, and you can easily change the size and shape of your bulge by packing in different positions.

It is on the large end, lengthwise, but there's still plenty of guys out there with 4.5 or 5 inches flaccid, even if it's not average. There's always people above and below average so I wouldn't think it'd look weird.

I'm around the same size and I got the pack it heavy which is 5.5 inches TOO huge! I wish I had gotten the 4.5 pack it light. I don't even use it because it makes a big bulge. I think that's a good size for you.

4.5 isn't too small, I think.. I've packed with RM and it wasn't a problem lengthwise. Same with the 4.5 inch Peecock. Length wasn't a problem, nope.. But I have to say that if your packer is GIRTHY and/or have a thick consistency you will definitely find that it's harder to pack with without having that "boner" problem.. but yeah. Either way, rock whatever packer size makes you feel most comfortable.