Ok here is the FTM chance to show where you are in your relationship status.

No pressure just i love demographics and wanting to see where the community is.

You can change you vote at any time if your status changes.

Comments welcome

I'm single and wish to date a cis female.

Come on men, the ladies are voting you in the dust.

In a devoted relationship with a lovely cis female <3

You men are way behind on your casting in the poll.

I want to hear from you all.

I'm in a fantastic relationship with a cisfemale.

I chose other because I couldn't choose more than one option, my options were single and I'd date a CIS male, a CIS female, an FTM or an MTF. To me it doesn't really matter I'll be single forever no matter who I'd feel like dating! xD

-Matt

I'm single and most likely staying that way forever. No one really gave me much of a second look back in high school and college due to spending so much effort getting through the day pretending to be female and getting good grades that I had no energy for anything else. I see no reason why that'll change when I start transitioning in October since I'll still be the same more or less, just more confident.

I can't even wrap my head around the idea that someone could really care for me that way. My parents didn't, at least not unconditionally, so how can I expect a stranger to?

Married to a cislady.

Partnered with a cis female.

I voted "Other".

I'm single, but I don't have a gender preference, and I don't care if they're cis or trans.

Forever single right here.  Never dated, never will. 
Deep stealth, can't do the whole disclosure thing.  So no.  Not dating.
Even if I ever do get approached.

Changed my vote from dating a cis male to single and staying that way forever.
Guess my relationship is over and I've never really had much faith in being able to find someone who would love me for who I am, not the "end game" of all these surgeries and yada yada... So, that's that.

In a serious relationship with a ciswoman. ^_^

I put other because I'd probably happily date a male or female of any sort, if I had the time and the right circumstances. My sexual attraction is primarily toward masculine or androgynous bodies, but sometimes getting to know and like a person can precede physical attraction, so I try not to assume too much.

I'm single and I'd most prefer to date a woman but I'm not ruling out anyone with a masculine identity either, I guess? I love celebrity dudes and soccer players and sometimes trans guys and sometimes just plain old cis dudes I know irl. But, predominantly attracted to girls.

I'm single and suspect I will stay that way forever because I fail to make emotional connections to the people I have sex with. The concept of a relationship interests me. I don't want to die alone, but at the same time I don't see anyone being attracted to me once I start T and I'm afraid I'll never be emotionally stable enough to sustain a relationship. Most of the people I "crush" on are cis females, but I've also "liked" transgirls, ftms, and non-binary folk and I've dated cismales and I've had sex with about equal numbers of cismales and cisfemales. I've always been a "manwhore", and I fear that this won't be an option for me once I start hormones.

I'm attracted primarily to feminine men and women of every sort. I'm not attracted to overly-masculine men so I'm not attracted to most FTMs or Cismen. I am, however, attracted to butch women and more masculine leaning non-binary people. But, I am most attracted to feminine energies, if that makes any sense. I can see myself growing old with a feminine or female person.

I find myself dreaming about having a girlfriend, someone sweet and clever that I could have little inside-jokes with, or a femmeboyfriend to cuddle on the couch while watching a film. I want someone I can wrap up in my arms and keep safe, even if they're perfectly capable of protecting themselves. Maybe I don't even want a relationship. I've always shied away from relationships before. Maybe, I just want a cuddle buddy. Because I was abused as a child I wouldn't even let my best friend of seven years touch my hair or hug me until a few months ago, but I felt perfectly comfortable having sex with near strangers. It's a wonder I didn't get any STDs. I've been off sex since February, because I've begun to see that behaviour as destructive/impulsive/an unnecessary risk.

I've just turned 20 and I am beginning to think about who I might be in the future. If I start T now (which I want to do), will that exclude me from dating? I'm so short in stature, I find it difficult to believe anyone will be attracted to me when I become a balding, hairy dwarf. I'm considered attractive (I don't know why) as a female. I am not a girl. I can't see anyone being okay with my body when I change it, or my mind now.

I'm pretty sure I'll die alone. It scares me, but it's true. No one is going to want to take on my baggage. When I finally am comfortable in my body (if that ever happens) I'll have made myself completely unfit for viewing. No one will ever want me again, and the only people who want me now want me for the novelty of having sex with a person like me.

I'll die alone in my apartment or in a hospital, without family. My best friend might be there if they isn't busy with their husband and kids. I won't count on it. 

So, no walking through a forest with a girl who knows the names of all the trees. No kissing my non-binary SO for no reason. No playing footsies with my femme boyfriend. No marrying and adopting children or dogs.

I don't see the point in even trying to form attachments.

In a relationship with someone who identifies as non-binary.

dating a genderqueer person

I voted "dating a cis female", but it's really more like "in a serious committed relationship with a cis female".

I've posted about her here before, the best friend of 8 years that evolved and morphed into a wonderful relationship .