hi and welcome. This place is great for asking questions. You'll find as you explore that there are different places for different issues - like female to male, male to female, surgery, etc. If you can figure out where your question will most likely fit, you'll get more answers.
This place is like a really big family. People get really close to each other. And like a family some days you'll get more attention and sometimes less. Sometimes you'll feel so supported and then sometimes there are the squabbles.