Thanks guys for the feedback. I cut it as short as I could without pissing off my family since they're touchy about my hair. I also slipped that tank top when I got home to take the picture, but yeah thanks for the tips

I'll try to cut the sides shorter next time.
Elio, you look all guy to me with an alternative style. It's cool, very unique. I would think that septum piercing wouldnt harm your passability but I personally see liprings as a more feminine thing especially if combined with a septum one. But a septum ring seems very masculine to me.
Ryan, bro you are looking GREAT! Love that facial hair, it suits you. Head on over the badass thread, I think if someone mistook you for a women they were slightly out of it or a bit blind.