Quote from: Lyric on September 30, 2014, 11:14:12 AM
Yes, Fairy, from your descriptions of yourself you really sound like more of a non-binary person to me.

W-Why? Because I don't want to have breasts?

I-I mean, I used to identify as an androgyne but I found out what really makes me happy is being a woman.
I prefer female pronouns, and I just want to be more feminine, not just androgynous. That's what I always wanted and that's how I feel inside.

... I... I just don't want breasts. I want to be feminine in every other way.

lots of ciswomen would prefer to have smaller breasts and seek methods to achieve this, so breast or no, doesnt make you any less of a girl

Quote from: ✰Fairy~Wishes✰ on October 07, 2014, 10:19:27 PM
W-Why? Because I don't want to have breasts?

I-I mean, I used to identify as an androgyne but I found out what really makes me happy is being a woman.
I prefer female pronouns, and I just want to be more feminine, not just androgynous. That's what I always wanted and that's how I feel inside.

... I... I just don't want breasts. I want to be feminine in every other way.

*hugs you tightly*

Sweetheart, don't you EVER let anyone tell you what your identity should be. You most certainly can be and are every bit as much a woman as any other without wanting breasts. I know it's very hurtful when people don't respect your identity and try to force their own ideas onto you. It's happened to me, too. Please cheer up, okay, sis? I see you as a woman, and I know plenty of others do, too. *smiles warmly*

Quote from: Pikachu on October 07, 2014, 10:48:24 PM
*hugs you tightly*

Sweetheart, don't you EVER let anyone tell you what your identity should be. You most certainly can be and are every bit as much a woman as any other without wanting breasts. I know it's very hurtful when people don't respect your identity and try to force their own ideas onto you. It's happened to me, too. Please cheer up, okay, sis? I see you as a woman, and I know plenty of others do, too. *smiles warmly*

What Pikachu said! Please don't let others get you down...!

I feel this stereotypical image of a woman who must have breasts in order to be accepted as female is damaging at most. I have a cis-female best friend who is flat-chested and she isn't treated any differently, her image of being a woman isn't threatened, questioned or invalidated, so why should yours?

It's okay if you do not want breasts, some gals develop breasts while other's don't

That is to say that you might or might not develop breasts, it is really up to you and your Dr. to decide what path to take regarding HRT

Personally I am rather happily surprised by the C-Cups I've developed but wish I could have developed a more feminine face, waistline and rear-end

It would be nice to be referred to as a female 100% of the time rather than just half or more of the time, but I guess I can't have everything my way

Wishing you all the best to decide which direction you'd like to take with your transition

i think you can identify with whatever you want. I don't want huge breast neither... I mean I want breasts but I won't get plastic surgery to get huge boobs if they come I'm fine if they don't even better. I don't think you need breast in order to be a woman.

Quote from: ✰Fairy~Wishes✰ on October 07, 2014, 10:19:27 PM
W-Why? Because I don't want to have breasts?

I-I mean, I used to identify as an androgyne but I found out what really makes me happy is being a woman.
I prefer female pronouns, and I just want to be more feminine, not just androgynous. That's what I always wanted and that's how I feel inside.

... I... I just don't want breasts. I want to be feminine in every other way.

Dont let someone on a website diagnose you. Nobody knows how you feel inside except you, and anyways no one here is an expert in these matters.

Honestly, I think you shouldn't worry about what kind of labels to assign to yourself. You want to live as and identify as a female but you don't want breasts--who cares what it's called? In my opinion all these labels for people's gender identity are useless at best, and harmful at worst because it leads to people judging others and themselves on what makes a person "really trans".

Quote from: ✰Fairy~Wishes✰ on October 07, 2014, 10:19:27 PM
W-Why? Because I don't want to have breasts?

I-I mean, I used to identify as an androgyne but I found out what really makes me happy is being a woman.
I prefer female pronouns, and I just want to be more feminine, not just androgynous. That's what I always wanted and that's how I feel inside.

... I... I just don't want breasts. I want to be feminine in every other way.

Hnnng I just wanna hug you. Again, I felt very similar to you before I started hrt. I'd definitely get with a physician and at least start hormones. Give it a month and see how you feel. If you don't like the little amount of chest changes you get in that time, you can always stop.

The important thing to do is go through a doctor for hormones and get blood tests regularly. I didn't even have any therapy before I started. I knew the risks and wanted to try it. Hrt CAN be dangerous if you don't monitor your health or if you self medicate.