My closest fit is gay male, but with a lot of asterisks. I apparently act straight and I don't view vaginas with disgust the way a lot of gay men seem to. My sexual attractions are almost exclusively to other men, but I also sometimes like masculine women, androgynous people, and transpeople at most stages in transition. Sometimes I like gender ambiguity a lot.
I identify strongly as a binary male, but I try to accept the parts of my body that I can't change, and I'm not willing to treat my female history as worthless. I'm a rough-around-the-edges homosexual man who used to be a mother, I guess. Something like that.
My identity to strangers in everyday life is that of a regular guy, a single dad who happens to be gay. Most people seem to decide that I'm actually bisexual, and I'm okay with that.