Quote from: Ms Grace on October 25, 2014, 03:17:27 PM
As with all women, trans and cis, we don't generally get the "ideal" body we believe we should have. Many women with big breasts want them smaller. Many with smaller breasts want bigger ones. Many cis women have dysphoria about their bodies too.

couldn't be more right!!!
While I love my book size, I would love a little bit more size, my cousin who has a 12DD wants smaller and my best friend who has a 10a wants much bigger.

I love my boobs, i want them to grow bigger but i'm only 10 months on HRT so i still have hope
With right bra they looks fantastic even if they are only A cup

I know most here are probably focused on boobs first, because they are badges of femininity, but I at the beginning of my transition focused more on getting a figure in my lower body, and developed a weight loss and exercise routine to accomplish that. Now I have moved onto thinking about boobs more.   

I've always focused on achieving an over all feminine shape also, but the breasts are where I've had the most development

Been working more on thinning my waistline lately

I got feminine look on my whole body ( thank you HRT ) but boobs are most noticable
Overall i'm happy so far

Quote from: Riley Skye on October 25, 2014, 02:27:03 PM
Well before I get into it I want to say I am well adjusted and very happy to my transition and I'm sorry I barely post at all here but from lurking around I can see how wonderful you guys are!

I'm going to be very honest because I feel confused. I am having a little dysphoria with my boobs. Sometimes I just wish my chest were flat. I wear sports bras to compress them slightly. I still feel like a woman and enjoy being one finally, I also know bottom surgery is the right thing for me. I feel weird about have a slight dysphoria over my chest. It isn't like I want surgery to get rid of them but I want them small. outside of sex I'm not the biggest fan of them. Is it normal to feel this way? I like having curves, hips, a butt and fair skin, I can't wait for my vagina too! I just feel insecure about my feelings towards my breasts...

To answer your question, there is nothing wrong with wanting to be female bodied but not wanting boobs, I'd suggest you join us enbys in the non-binary section. I'm not going to impose a gender on you, but it does sound like your questioning things and gender assumptions and the non binary board is the place to do that.

Sorry ladies, as much as I think I <3 my boobs threads are important, because self love is radical protest in a world that teaches trans women that our bodies are other, y'all kind of derailed the original question.

Quote from: Nati on October 28, 2014, 02:59:50 AM
I love my boobs, i want them to grow bigger but i'm only 10 months on HRT so i still have hope
With right bra they looks fantastic even if they are only A cup

Lucky girl!!

One of mine is a tiny bit smaller, too. I think that there are things that can be done to even them out, but not sure if there are any proven methods. As far as them being in the way, I don't seem to have any problems that way. With small C's, I think that they would have to be bigger for that to happen.

Can I add, as I wrote about it on here a few months ago, boobs past 5pm on a work day, it's my number 1 thing I dislike about being female.
Every other day and second they're great, but at the end of a hard days work (you'll be surprised at how much work a photographer does) you just hate them.

One slightly bigger than the other is very normal, it has to do with your dominant hand and muscles used in your everyday life.

  Many many CIS girls have asymmetrical boobs

I have seen cis girls with one MUCH smaller than the other, so mine are great compared to that. Actually I wouldn't even complain if they were in the way a lot, as I would be proud if they were. It would be even more feminine, then. The more I feel them, the better. Also the heavier they get, the better, but that is just me.

I saw myself in the elevator mirror the other day and realized it looked like I have cleavage. Which is nice in a way, but I didn't like the image! I never got too fond with women showing off too much cleavage. I don't know why that is. It also got me confused: am I not supposed to like this?

Having boobs is greater than any of my expectation!  I had no idea how wonderful these little budlings could feel to the touch (even though they are always sore) but how good they make me feel on the inside. 

Amazing what a single change can do to make a girl feel better about her body.

Quote from: Nati on October 28, 2014, 02:59:50 AM
I love my boobs, i want them to grow bigger but i'm only 10 months on HRT so i still have hope
With right bra they looks fantastic even if they are only A cup

The right bra can do amazing things.. a push bra, with some padding.. can make them look a whole cup size bigger.

I always wondered why they called a wonder bra the wonder bra... i think its because when you take the bra off.. you wonder where they went, lol

Quote from: noleen111 on October 30, 2014, 12:18:30 PM
The right bra can do amazing things.. a push bra, with some padding.. can make them look a whole cup size bigger.

I always wondered why they called a wonder bra the wonder bra... i think its because when you take the bra off.. you wonder where they went, lol

LOL! That's hilarious! Love it

Be careful what you ask for. I find that having large boobs is both a blessing and curse I always wanted large boobs now the I am a 36I the need to wear a bra all the time for support. There are times when I just don't feel like wearing one,but that is when people stare at them. As others have said they do get in the way. But having a feminine figure is wonderful don't get me wrong!

I know, i'm wearing bra all the time since i  live in full time, sometimes it's just annoyng but to be honest i like it

At least we can al agree we love having them

The only thing that I don't like about my boobs and I know that some cis women have the same "problem" is that I don't have any cleavage. I have a gap in the middle. I am afraid that this will not change, but am used to it. Even if I push them together, that gap is still there.

Quote from: Riley Skye on October 31, 2014, 12:15:54 AM
At least we can al agree we love having them

agreed

From my teens I always wanted breasts.. when the girls in my class at school started developing them, i admit i was a little jealous.. funny I first tried on a bra at the age of 19.. when I started cross dressing seriously,,, by that I mean... wearing a full outfit... with makeup, a wig, breast forms and shoes.. even shaving my legs.

at age of 21 I went full time and then started wearing a bra everyday.. you know I still love as much as that night I tried one on, when I was 19.. I love the feeling of straps around my body and the feeling when the cup shapes my breast for that first few minutes.. then you get use it and you don't notice it anymore.

I also love lingerie and wearing sexy lingerie. my breasts let me have so much fun... I love them