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You just don't get it Dad!

Started by Shana-chan, November 15, 2014, 10:37:47 PM

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Shana-chan

I have breasts Dad! No I don't want to sue anyone or get an operation to remove them NOR would getting them removed make me happy one bit! I have told you time and time again but you JUST DON'T GET IT! Stop shoving your opinions, beliefs religion etc. down my throat and quite using religion as an excuse to run and hide from the truth! I am a woman and that's just HOW IT IS! Besides, the bible says nothing about trans people and if at anything, it only seems to SUPPORT trans people by what little it DOES say! So stop using it as a shield/excuse to run and hide from the truth like you always do! Grown up already and grow a pair why don't you! Talking to you is like talking to a freaking brick wall!  :eusa_wall:

Now, if I could ONLY actually say that to the man. -_- But even if I do, there's that  :eusa_wall: and he seriously makes me want to hit my head  against the :eusa_wall: sometimes. I wish I could say I feel better after having said all this but, what I want to say to him is still on me and is weighing me down and even if I did say it to him, hello brick wall. :( Anywone know a nice soft brick wall that won't hurt me that I can just run and ram myself into a few times to feel better?  :D  :P
"Denial will get people no where."
"Don't look to the here & now but rather, to the unknown future & hope on that vs. the here & now."
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Sephirah

Awwww, sweetie, it sounds like he doesn't want to get it. And with people like that, sadly, there isn't much you can do. The choice has to be theirs.

Forget the brick wall, go get a nice tall coffee and pamper yourself for a while. You deserve it. Go get a facial, or a manicure. Live for yourself and hope he eventually wants to face the truth, but don't live your life hoping he will.

*extra big hug*
Natura nihil frustra facit.

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." ~ Buddha.

If you're dealing with self esteem issues, maybe click here. There may be something you find useful. :)
Above all... remember: you are beautiful, you are valuable, and you have a shining spark of magnificence within you. Don't let anyone take that from you. Embrace who you are. <3
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LordKAT

Write a long nasty letter to him, then tack it up on the brick wall so you can burn it down.
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ImagineKate

Must be the season. I had another big fight with my wife. Sleeping on the sofa.
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Ariel Renée

I feel our pain...Im starting to realize that my dad wont be that supportive..and that i just need to move away....I don't want to keep him in the dark...but i don't know that he will understand
SPREADING LOVE THROUGH MUSIC!!!!  :angel:
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big kim

He might come round,my Dad was very opposed to my treatment and transition.Over the next couple of years he came round
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