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For guys who date guys.

Started by Whynaut, December 28, 2014, 03:14:04 AM

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Whynaut

Hey all,
I have an OKCupid date tomorrow and it's my first date with a guy as a guy. I'm really nervous. I guess what I'm looking for is advice on any differences I should be aware of. I've dated guys as a "girl" before, so how is this different, if at all?  I just feel like I don't know what I'm doing... Any advice at all would be appreciated.
"It's like everyone tells a story about themselves inside their own head. Always. All the time. That story makes you what you are. We build ourselves out of that story."
- The Name of the Wind
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sneakersjay

Just be yourself, try to relax, and have fun!   And try not to worry about anything beyond this one date.

Good luck!


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Whynaut

Haha, thanks. That's always good advice. I was just somehow letting my nerves get the best of me.
"It's like everyone tells a story about themselves inside their own head. Always. All the time. That story makes you what you are. We build ourselves out of that story."
- The Name of the Wind
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sneakersjay

Dating is HARD.  I hate it.  I gave up on online dating and finally met someone awesome in person by getting involved in community activities.  I did have one successful relationship from OK Cupid (18+ months).

Good luck!


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