I'm sorry , I'm very confused, maybe I haven't understood your posts very well, but I wonder if you could clarify something. Are you a cis male or a cis female, are you presenting as male or are you presenting as female , I'm somewhat confused as to how your presenting to the gentleman . please don't take the question wrong , I'd like to try to help , but I'm quite confused about if your male or female

Quote from: stephaniec on December 30, 2014, 02:26:02 PM
I'm sorry , I'm very confused, maybe I haven't understood your posts very well, but I wonder if you could clarify something. Are you a cis male or a cis female, are you presenting as male or are you presenting as female , I'm somewhat confused as to how your presenting to the gentleman . please don't take the question wrong , I'd like to try to help , but I'm quite confused about if your male or female

Cisgender male. But when its just me and him... I go full Regina George mood. Talking girly and stuff.

But it doesnt matter.... he doesnt look at me as a man... man. Its like he sees me as a name only.

But hes leaving soon.... the day it happens ill go sane again. Ever watch Gone With The Wind? Its borderline hes Ashley Wilkes.... i didnt why she love him till now.

"I loved something I made up, something that's just as dead as Melly is. I made a pretty suit of clothes and fell in love with it. And when Ashley came riding along, so handsome, so different, I put that suit on him and made him wear it whether it fitted him or not. And I wouldn't see what he really was. I kept on loving the pretty clothes—and not him at all."

so he's a heterosexual cis male and married. Just curious why would you think there is some possible attraction by him for you if your presenting male or why would think there could be some attraction for you or is this totally or was totally a one sided feeling on your part to think there was some kind of chance that he might be attracted to you at some point in the future.

Quote from: stephaniec on December 30, 2014, 02:50:13 PM
so he's a heterosexual cis male and married. Just curious why would you think there is some possible attraction by him for you if your presenting male or why would think there could be some attraction for you or is this totally or was totally a one sided feeling on your part to think there was some kind of chance that he might be attracted to you at some point in the future.

Because of his body language. He put his hand on my chair once, when i was talking to someone he turn his head so fast, he complimented me twice, he offer his shirt once because he didnt like how i look one day to a party, he happen to be at every function I was going...., he defended me once, he told me things he wouldnt tell his coworkers, he SAT directly in front of me with his feet nearly touching mine. He smiled at me at every dumb thing i said. He eve. Said aloud that he would hit that (referring to me)

Nothing there has been dramatize.

He does not do this for anyone.


If I text him last month when he look infactuated it be different.

So I must of missed something in your posts, where is the problem . If  he's flirting flirt back. or if he's leaving you can still keep contact