My kids, my progress on HRT, my hobbies, the fact that I'm fortunate not to live in poverty and have "first world problems." When I need to de-stress I take to my ham radio set and pound out some morse code, or I head to the range and throw some hot lead downrange. Or I might girl it up, do my nails, try on various clothing (dresses, outfits etc). Yes I still enjoy dressing up, it's not just to alleviate dysphoria. It's kinda fun actually. During the day I may engage in some retail therapy, maybe at a mall or down to Macy's, Kohl's or Burlington. I might hang out in the "gay" part of town (Chelsea/village) and just be myself.