I am in a similar place right now with my husband who is planning on transitioning. I love him more than anything in the world, but I'm unable to reconcile how I can stay with him if he is a woman. I'm heartbroken to be honest. I think we'll still be good friends after all is said and done, plus we've got a bunch of kids. This is the most difficult, heart-wrenching thing I've ever been through in my life. I told him that I've cried more in the past two months, than I've ever cried in my entire life.
