Advice appreciated, Zumbagirl. You're right - it's not a race. I'm not a youngun though, so a delay of five years has more significance to me than, say, someone in their twenties who (probably) has far longer life ahead of them.
But the main topic of price...
Surgery in the US is, without doubt, expensive. This seems to be in part because medical care in the US is just expensive. Generally good quality, especially when it comes to elective surgeries paid for out of pocket rather than through insurance, but it's a costly proposition. If by going abroad I could bypass all the unnecessary expenses of healthcare in the US (the marble-floored fancy medical offices, the overpriced drugs and supplies, the state-of-the-art $100 million dollar operating room stuffed full of the latest equipment when a well-equipped operating room is all that is needed, subsidizing the doc's outrageous US malpractice insurance costs and the doc's private school tuition and European skiing trips for his three kids, etc.), while sacrificing little in terms of the experience and skill of the surgeon (which is what determines the results in large part, the other large part being my own face and what he has to work with), then I'd be happy to go abroad and save a buck or two.
If those savings allow me to shave a few years off the time it'll take me to save up for SRS/GCS (and those few years are getting increasingly precious), then that's a good thing.
I don't know. I guess the answer is to get multiple consultations from legit FFS specialists (and not general plastic surgeons who dabble now and again in FFS), and see which suits my face, my wallet, and my calendar.
I absolutely agree that with surgeons, you get what you pay for. But the location of the surgeon often significantly raises or lowers the price of the treatment because of the ancillary costs of running a practice in that particular location. Boston is more expensive that Mexico or Thailand, and I can't extrapolate those price differences to conclude that the surgeon in Boston is automatically better than those who practice in areas where the cost of running a first-rate medical practice is less.
At the moment, I'll probably stay in the US though. It's convenient and I think that for my face - which as you mention is one thing that I absolutely cannot have screwed up - it's probably worth spending the extra pennies to go to a great doc with access to great resources. I'm not looking for every single facial feature to be altered, so the cost probably won't be too outrageous. For the SRS/GCS, seeing as it's highly likely that nobody will ever see that part of me - perhaps not even me unless I'm dancing around naked in front of a mirror, which at my age won't happen - lowering the cost will be a more significant factor.