This sounds bad, but I got a promise from my daughter's new therapist that her agency won't ever press charges or send me medical bills if my kid hurts someone. She said they have a fund for that sort of contingency, that that kind of thing happens with that sort of client base and they can handle it. My kid has grown five inches in less than a year and we mostly just stay home all the time because I can't make her do anything anymore. It's a huge relief to be assured I can let her go to therapy and not have to ever visit her in jail as a result.