It's a derivative of a Latin prefix. So while 'trans' means across. 'cis' means the same.

Quote from: noleen111 on January 11, 2015, 01:59:30 AM
My boyfriend knows about my past, although none of his family knows and i have no intention to ever tell them... The only thing we will tell them one day is that i cant have children.

I dont talk about my male past, and he does not want to see any pictures of me as a male.. which is fine with me, as i dont really want to show anyone those pics.. luckily not much survived, as most of these pictures were destroyed in a house fire many years ago.

He sees me as a beautiful young woman who he has fallen in love with, and he says my vagina is the best he has had the pleasure of entering... although he told me he has only slept with 3 other woman in his life..

Noleen that is the same with my husband. You explained it better lol

Quote from: Sophiabutterfly09 on January 20, 2015, 12:59:26 PM
Jojo I love this!!! Completely honest. Coming from one Hawaii girl to another I'm very happy for you!!! Your literally living the dream. I love how you talked about the "tee" In a very honest and straightforward way. The ultimate goal for me is to blend as much as possible. This is lovely

Thanks Sophia. Hope all goes well for you! It may not be similar experience to some but in my experience, I like to keep things on the down low with society. I transitioned to a full women and had my srs and BA done and to live life as a woman, I am entitled to keeping my gender secret and only a few would only know such as husband and the people I grew up with

Quote from: Cindy on January 08, 2015, 12:56:36 AM
OK stop now.

I never even started!

Quote from: medulla on January 14, 2015, 01:42:02 PM
I have been living together with my boyfriend now for 18 months. He knows about my past, but he's family doesn't. Two of his best friends also know. We are going to crete this summer, and I have a feeling its going to be a question asked 

That's lovely Medulla, hope he pops the question, I'm celebrating my 5th wedding anniversary this year, I've a feeling my husband will have a surprise for me, well for our 5th anniversary, I'm expecting more than flowers 

MtFs marry cis men all the time. You just have to find the right guy.

Each of us has to make choices, but for me, at my age, I don't want to have a past hanging around that could cause issues later, so I will make sure any man knows of my history. If that history causes him to leave me, then he wasn't the man for me anyway. But younger transwomen may have so little public history that their lives will simply be viewed without regarding to their childhood history.

Stealth is a complicated topic and made more complicated by the availability of public information out there today. For me, personally, ensuring the man I love knows, will be simpler. For others it may differ and I certainly won't judge one way or another. We each have to weigh all the factors and come to our own conclusions.

Of course they do, why the heck not?
I'm engaged to one....and he's a cop...not that matters, but I know many who are married

Quote from: Tammy M on January 14, 2015, 01:07:37 PM
When my boyfriend's divorce is final we will get married.  I've been with him over 3 years and he went with me to Montreal for my GRS.

Our GRS must have been just a week or two apart. Mine was Sept. 10. Wonderful facility with great people.
You doing well?